My girlfriend and I had dated on and off for about 5 years. We have broken up numerous times but it was always her who initiated the break ups. Recently, there have been two big breakups. Last year around this time she had broken up with me since she lost feelings and I tried to beg her back etc. However after a couple of days of no contact she wanted me back. Foolish me, I took her back without talking about different problems that needed to be addressed from the breakup. So, fast forward to now, she broke up with me again about 2 weeks ago. The reason she gave me was the same, "I lost feelings for you..". Now if there is any contact I am the one initiating it. I had gotten a phone call about 4 days after the break up and she told me that she was heart broken over another guy... Is she playing head games with me or what...

Yes she is-so ignore her-heal from the breakups and forget her.

Ok thanks a lot

Why do you put up with the mind games of a FLAKE!?

Disappear from her life permanently, forever, No Go Back, NO CONTACT, Nothing, Nada!!

Run, Forrest, Run!!

Thanks talaniman, I appreciate your feedback. I know to some extent there is something wrong but I think she just hides it so well to my eyes since I am still in love with her. The really funny thing is this guy she was heartbroken over is totally opposite of me. He is into comics, dresses up as super heroes and stuff... It sounds so childish and it is just like what happened... I am 22 years old and she is 21, aren't we a little too old for this?

Yes your are much to old to be held hostage by a FLAKE!

My gosh, get a real female, a mature one who is happy with herself, and wants to share it with you. There has to be millions of those around.

"5 years. We have broken up numerous times but it was always her who initiated the break ups."

"she lost feelings and I tried to beg her back"

"Foolish me, I took her back"

"she broke up with me again "

"she told me that she was heart broken over another guy"


Want to spend another 5 years?
You are her fallback.
Never #1

Ditch her. Never look back.