I don't feel like I can Trust him anymore.
It was a stupid lie but I have no idea why he even did it. Ive asked him and he doesn't know either. I asked who'd text him and called him (after noticing the name and number wasn't one I'd seen before) and he told me it was his dad responding late to a message he'd sent. When I confronted him about why he'd lied and said it was his dad when I know full well it wasn't, because it had been a girls name on the screen not the word 'Dad'. He told me he was embarrassed because it's a friend who's older than him, female, who's been asking him for relationship advice.
I don't understand how that would embarrass him, if he was just being a good friend then why would he tell me it was his dad and create a back story to it?
I know it was a stupid thing for him to do, and I know he loves me. I want to believe him, as I've spoken to the woman and it was true what he'd said about her asking his advice. But when I look at him my heart sinks and I don't feel like he's the same guy anymore. He says something to me now and in my head I question it.
I don't know what to do, I want to make it work and I don't wants something so stupid and small to cause everything to end. Help...
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I was sitting next to him when the fone went off, the name came up and I saw it out of the corner of my eye. So I asked who it was, and then he told me it was his dad. I always trusted him, I never go through his fone or email or anything, even though I have the ability and opportunity to if I really felt like it. Its not that it was suspicious because I know everything about the situation and sorted it out. I just don't feel like I can trust him now after he lied to my face, over something so stupid. He said he was nervous and the lie just happened. I don't know why he'd be nervous I'm not the sort of person who will get pissed off or annoyed if he talks to other women.
I just feel now like everything he says will be a pile of crap, if he's late home or doesn't have a reason for being late or anything, its made me paranoid. And he doesn't get why its bothered me so much. He thinks I can just close my eyes count to 10 and it never happened. But I cant. And I don't know what to do.