Heyyy I am 18 in 1 week and 6 days , I am still a vergin and have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 months now. I am scared of having sex because of the pain . I want 2 have sex with him and he wants sex with me but he suggested the other night if we wait until your last night of being 17 it will make it special and have rose petals on the bed etc but I'm not sure if I want 2 wit until then want it before I'm 18. Any help would be GREAT!! Thanksss :)

Let me ask you one question... Are you ready to be a mother?

You already said you're scared to have sex... you need to wait. You're obviously not ready if you have to ask a group of strangers.