I met this guy online 4 months ago he is from Tunis and he claims to love me. I have read stuff online and in books about the men in Tunis and it is disturbing, I don't know what to do about this he wants me to come out there so we can get married then I come back to the USA and get his visa for him, I am a single mom of 4 children and I am worried he is using me for his visa. Some day's I think he is telling me the truth that he loves me but other times I feel sick to my stomach. I don't know what to do. There have been some marriages that have worked and some that haven't, he always says to me that if he hurts me Allah won't like it and he will pay for hurting me.people have told me to get money from him in the amount of 10,000 dollars to see if he will stay.then tell him he can get it back after 10 years of marriage. Can someone in this situation please help me? Thank you

How can he love you? He's never met you. All he wants is citizenship (which isn't automatic), not you.

It's a scam. Please don't get snookered.

This is a scam, don't go, don't give money, and never believe a stranger you have never met, and known for quite a while. Online doesn't count.

What are you thinking and feeling, amy?

I think you know the answer to this. If you didn't you wouldn't be posting here. Think about your 4 children. Think with your head, not your heart.

I don't know what to feel, I really like this guy, yes I know we never met but he's perfect because he says all the wright things, am I that desperate to be with someone, I just want to be loved and no one loves someone who is over weight. Well I don't know maybe a lot of people are happy, why can't I be happy, I just want to curl up in a ball and die. I haven't been happy in a long time, yes I have my kids but I want a different kind of happy, I want to come home every night to someone other then my baby's. I really hate my life wright now. I am going to grow old by myself.

Why can't I be happy like other people, I would never give him money, so even talking on Skype he is still a stranger?I swear I will never be happy. Thank you for your feed back

Thank you for your feed back