I have been separated for 4yrs from him and we have remained over time very close and he has finally decided to move on. I feel like it is consuming me. I have moved on and, in all this time we never got divorced until 3 months ago, telling myself before I went in, if something is wrong don't go through with it.

And now I am here with boyfriend and, he is dating and, I have lost 20lbs in 3 weeks because I feel as though I want him back??

Well don't put yourself threw that and if it is he wants to move on let him put your new body to work Show off show him you can find someone wayyyy better then him so that one guy you are going to search for will treat you right and make you feel good!

Maybe because you were still close, that the finality of getting the divorce is hard to accept, and you have second thoughts.

They will pass in time. See your doctor if you are concerned about your short term health.

You know what... this makes me mad you hurt him, so he moved on if you go back into his life your going to hurt him more