I met my girl back in 2009. We exchanged numbers and kept in contact since then. I fell in love with her instantly. We became friends and got to know one another better. We started dating shortly before Easter 2011.

We started dating after she invited me over for a weekend. At first, she admitted to me that she didn't think that I was serious about her. In her eyes, this made it okay to continue talking to her ex about how much she still loves him. How she doesn't want to get used to him being gone for two years. That she thought she could replace him with me.

Although I love her unconditionally, with all of my heart, I'm beginning to feel the strain that its having on our relationship.

A few weeks ago, she told me that she needed a break from me. She told me that she needed time to think about things, and to come to terms with how she feels. I disagree with the notion that taking a break actually ever helps a situation. In my eyes, if you have to take a break, then you have nothing worth fighting for. You either love the other person, or you don't. I swallowed my pride and went on the break.

On our break, She kept in regular contact with me with text messages. She even invited me to the Beach, to figure things out. I, being the hopeless romantic, quickly agreed. I thought that the beach would be the perfect place to reconcile our differences.

During the whole ride there, she cuddled up to me in the backseat. She told me that she missed me and loved me. I felt relieved. That everything was falling into place finally.

We got to the beach. Everything seemed fine. That we were on the verge of becoming a couple again. We started talking about our relationship, and how much she cares about me and doesn't want to lose me. That she's afraid that I'll leave her for someone better. I assured her that this would never happen. That I love her with all of my heart. I would go to the end of the world and back for her. I told her that there are a million girls in this world, and I would choose her a million times over them each time.

After a very emotional talk, she agreed that we should get back together. That I was the guy she wanted to be with. I was thrilled. I wanted to pump my fist in the air in victory.

As we were getting ready to leave, she left to go change into some new clothes. As soon as she came out of the bathroom, I noticed something changed instantly. I felt cold inside, I knew what was about to happen.

As we started driving home, she confessed that she had a change of heart. That there really wasn't a way for us to remain together. That no one approves of our relationship. That she feels like she's fighting for a lost cause. She told me to don't believe in us. That she didn't. She even said that the happiness she feels with me wears off.

I'm not going to lie, I felt emotionally devastated at this point. I broke down and cried. She had enough audacity to watch my tears roll down my face. Amidst my anguish, I asked her what she wanted to do about all of this. She told me that we can remain as friends. With all the hurt that I was feeling, I agreed.

We arrived back at her place later that night. I was unsure if I should leave or stay. In the end, I decided to stay. Eventually, I found myself in her bed. Just talking. She admitted to me that she didn't mean anything she said to me in the car. That she said those things to make it easier for me to leave her and to find someone else. She admitted that she was shocked that I didn't leave after I dropped her and her sister off at home.

She decided that being friends just isn't working out. That we are still both acting like a couple. So we got back together.

At this point, she's been consistently talking to her EX. A guy that supposedly left to go to Germany for 2 years. Last week he walked into my work. I instantly recognized him and introduced myself. He was shocked that I knew his name. When I bought up my GF, he pretended like he didn't know her and left very quickly.

I told Myia about this. I don't think she believes me about this. The guy keeps denying it. He makes her feel guilty that she doesn't trust him and didn't wait for him. That he love her. That she's the only girl that he wants to be with.

Myia has been telling me that she loves me and our relationship is very strong. That she fell in love with me back in 2009 as well.

I bought her a phone so that we can have more communication with one another. I decided to install an Android app that let me read her text messages. I later found out that, she was telling this guy, that she loves him. That he's the only one she wants to be with.

Naturally I confront her about this. She becomes angry and says I have no right reading her text messages. That I showed I didn't trust her. So I uninstalled the app in an attempt to let her know I do trust her.

Every time I am with her, she is glued to her phone. Whenever I leave the room and come back, she quickly turns the phone away from me. I know who she's texting, its making me sad and angry.

She tells me that I'm the one she wants and that he just doesn't leave her alone. I told her she needs to decide what she wants. That if it me, then she needs to make it clear to him that she's with me. She tells me she has, but then she told me that she got all mushy with him yesterday.

I am unbelievably hurt. I feel played. I just don't know what to do anymore. I know she's that one girl I would do anything for. :(

You poor goof. You give unconditional love to a very flawed stranger who lies for her own needy, selfish reason. You are blinded by love, FALSE love that is not shared at all, but still you give more? That's plain crazy! Almost a s crazy as bugging her phone, and since it did reveal the truth, get the hell out of dodge and sell the story to a European Romance film company. They would love it, but you really must end this drama, once and for all.

She is the love of my life. My strength. She gives meaning to my life. With her, I have a reason to even get up in the morning. I really want to marry her someday :)

You are in love with a person who doesn't love you. Sorry for the harshness, but you need to hear it. You seem so willing to suspend common sense and rationality in the face of her OVERWHELMINGLY OBVIOUS lies and betrayal. Do you need to find her in bed with him before you leave? Does she need to marry him and tell you that she still really loves you and that she is just confused? RUN away, don't walk. What is a liar possibly offering you that gives you a reason to wake up in the morning? She is using and abusing you... what meaning is she bringing to your life? Please go no contact, and work on yourself so you never accept this type of treament in another relationship.