I thought why spend $1300 on an apt. that I am never there and I would be able to split his rent and help him out, right, well he was not real keen on that idea. He said I don't want to hear you harp at me if I want to sit on the couch or play a video game. Therefore he doesn't think it's a good time, but he gets mad if I want to go to my house+ he never ever comes over?
What are a few opinions I really do like him a lot and don't think I'm really a harper I don't know where he is coming from.

Maybe I should start thinking he isn't the one?

What are your thoughts my age 33 he 36 times are ticking, you know...

Saving money is very logical, but the problem is that the relationship in its current state is not strong enough to take the next time.

How long have you been together for?

1 year and 2 months

He's not ready to move in, and acts childish when YOU do YOUR own thing.

I wouldn't move in with him. I'd SERIOUSLY wait on that step.

And I'd stop spending as much time at his place as you do. If he wants to hang out, you can either go out or he can come to your place.

Seems like you have different priorities in life.

Either he's not ready to settle down with anyone, so it's nothing personal.

Or he doesn't think the relationship is strong enough to take things to the next level.