Why does my ex disrespect his new girlfriend, he acts moody and depressed now

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Are you hoping he misses you?

I don't have any contact with him directly,my brother is married to my ex sister,so naturally my brother lets me know at times how my ex has been doing or acting,my brother will say things like my ex just mopes around or says mean things to his new girlfriend which he only been with her 6 weeks now and we have been apart for 8 weeks,I myself thinks he missing me or might be feeling guilty for breaking up with me,or maybe she's just a rebound to him and he doesn't respect her...

So what does is that information saying to you?

I really don't know what to think,I need some advice,this is really the first time I've had to go through this kind of stuff??

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Originally Posted by ashlyn05

i really dont knw what to think,i need some advice,this is really the first time ive had to go thru this kinda of stuff?????

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You want to rescue him? Get him back?

Why and how did you and your ex split?

So why do you care, most ex's would be glad that their ex is not having a good life. With that was he not that way when you and he was having trouble ?

I do want him back I love him very much,but I'm staying strong using the nc in hopes that he will realize he misses me and he made a mistake,he tell my brother he still loves me that he doesn't love his new girlfriend,if the nc doesn't work that way,at least it will work to save my sanity.. we broke up on easter night we were just having a argument I told him I was tired of argueing over stupid things really don't even remember what it was about,he walked and left and I sit there and didn't try to talk to him or stop him,I don't know I felt frozen for a minute it all happened so fast,I guess we needed space at that time,I do feel a lot better these last couple weeks but can't help from missing him so bad,its hard for me to even sleep,I haven't started dating anyone new I just cat bring myself to do it,he started seeing this new girlfriend 2 weeks after we split and had her living with him the same week,I really think it's a rebound,he doesn't look or act happy,and needs to shave very badly...

I still love him despite all he has done,yea I guess he was moody or acted depressed when we would have problems... but really what kind of problems could he and his new girlfriend be having they have only been dating 6 weeks,we were together 3 years

The issue here is no, you are not doing NC, you have contact all the time when you hear and listen to what he is doing. You should tell family not to even talk to you about it

Yea your right,I'm going to tell my brother I don't want to hear what he's up to... thanks

Stick to NC and heal from the breakup-what he does or who he's with doesn't matter now.

Get your life back on track and move on.

This doesn't make sense to me.

You were together for three years, you love him, you had an argument about something so petty you don't remember what it was, you break up, and hope that no contact will make him miss you so he'll come back?

Just what did he do that he needs to be so badly punished for? Why would you put anybody through this.

What led up to the breakup, and why was splitting the only option.