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  • Jun 16, 2011, 07:49 PM
    Chris87911
    Does he hate me? But still love me?
    Not sure really how to explain this, but I can say that I'm not the best person... but for the past 2 years my dad has being very different to me, everything that I say he always has some ******* response. For example: today my grandmother has a cast on her leg and she said her lower back was hurting on the side that doesn't have the cast, so I said well maybe it is because you are having to keep all your weight on your right legs and kind of lean on it. And he says " well what the **** would you know all you have is and 8th grade education, and havnt broke enough bones to know **** about what your talking about... are you a doctor NO!"... another example the day before that I hurt my arm extremely bad. And all I did was go tell him about it, and he says. "well I my arm hurts me everyday your's isn't even that bad, just deal with it. I don't know what his problem is but sometimes when he treats me this way I don't know what to do. And the problem is, he always was nice to me. He couched my football. He road motorcycles with me. Did everything with me, but just these past 2 years he has changed so much and I have no idea why. I love him more the anyone or anything in the world. And it makes me want to just die when he treats me like that. I don't know can someone help
  • Jun 16, 2011, 07:53 PM
    Alty

    Have you told him how he's making you feel?

    Has anything changed in his life? Divorce? Death of someone he loves? Drinking? Drugs? Job loss? Retirement?
  • Jun 29, 2011, 11:37 PM
    artlady
    Two years is TOO long for him to stop being a Dad.I suggest that you tell him what you said on here and MAYBE he will realize how you are feeling and how it is affecting you.You presented yourself so well here,do it with Dad.Your smart and eloquent ,don't be afraid of the emotion.Be strong sweetie and tell the truth.

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