My Fiancé and I get into a argument.. He runs and tells his best friend.. The best friend takes the information and runs it through town making me look like a bad person. Every where I go someone is telling me something new that the best friend said. I go to my fiancé and express my concerns. We argue, and argue, and argue.. He tells me I'm "sweating" his best friend and to lay off. I cry about it, break up with him about it, etc...
The best friend even laughed when I brought it to his attention and he even would say things like "stop checking his phone" on my fiancé's voice mail for me to hear. I stay away from the best friend and the best friend doesn't come near me. He's not invited to nothing we have. Now the best friend is getting married and so are my fiancé and I. My fiancé wants the best friend to be the best man (? ) as well as the best friend wants my fiancé to be the best man.
I don't agree. I also don't agree in supporting the best friend at his wedding. Only because he didn't have respect for our household. He has been the sole issue in our relationship.
Now 4yrs later, we are still arguing about this best friend. Now that I expressed my concerns (as I have thousands of times) my fiancé finally wants to make it work. I think it's only because he knows I don't want the best man to be in our wedding and vise verse. But my fiancé isn't admitting that is the reason why after 4 yrs and 2 kids later he want it to "work" between me and his best friend.
My question is why now? Do you really care or are you doing this to make you and your best friend happy? What do you think? What would you do? I need help cause I'm considering leaving him. This is way too much!