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  • Jun 16, 2011, 09:16 AM
    joelandasheyXx
    Im totally in love with this boy called joel but I'm scared to admit it to him?
    Tell me what I should do!
  • Jun 16, 2011, 09:44 AM
    mmresd
    Gather the courage to talk to him. You have nothing to lose, if he says no then you are right back where you started. If he says yes, then maybe you can move forward. How old are you by the way?

    Good Luck,
    Javi
  • Jun 16, 2011, 11:47 AM
    joelandasheyXx
    Comment on mmresd's post
    I'm 14 and so is he, I guess your right in a way, I just wish I knew how he will react when I tell him I mean I think he really hates me even though he hasn't told me he hates me, we get on all the time and I really really like him, I'm just really scared about how he will react when I tell him and that's making my courage drop by a million times... I really want to tell him... I just Don't know how too...
  • Jun 16, 2011, 12:19 PM
    XxKayleyYairXx
    Hi(:
  • Jun 16, 2011, 12:31 PM
    adviceishere

    No one can say how he will react, but I'm sure he doesn't hate you! You said yourself you both get along. As mmresd said, get the courage up, there is only one way of finding out. Just try and be alone when you tell him. Boys are weird and if you tell him in front of his friends he might get embarrassed and give you a different reaction.
  • Jun 16, 2011, 12:37 PM
    joelandasheyXx
    Comment on adviceishere's post
    Well I really appreciate your advice and I'm going to try and yes you are right he may get embarrassed if I tell him in front of his friends my friend did it in front of the boy she liked and she messed up big time and she get really upset because in front of them he said he hated her I just Don't want it to happen to me Xx
  • Jun 16, 2011, 12:39 PM
    joelandasheyXx
    Comment on XxKayleyYairXx's post
    Hiya lol x
  • Jun 16, 2011, 12:40 PM
    adviceishere

    Well if he did say such a nasty thing to you then he is not worth your time. And you tell your friend not to let one person hold her back with future crushes, she was very brave to tell him and I'm sure its very damaging to such a young teen to experience that, it wasn't her that messed up, it was him ;)
  • Jun 16, 2011, 12:53 PM
    joelandasheyXx
    Comment on adviceishere's post
    Lol xx yeah I got her a present and I told the boy she has a crush on to back off so all was good but I don't want to let anything that ruined her ruin my chance of been happy and that might sound selfish but I wish for us both to be happy and I will do what ever it takes to get the courage to tell this boy I love him x
  • Jun 16, 2011, 01:00 PM
    joelandasheyXx
    Comment on adviceishere's post
    Me and that XxKayleyYairxX isn't the same person... btw x
  • Jun 16, 2011, 03:57 PM
    mmresd
    Comment on mmresd's post
    You go up to him and tell him, there is only one way. And it is super simple.
  • Jun 17, 2011, 08:12 AM
    joelandasheyXx
    Comment on mmresd's post
    You have been really helpful mmresd :) Thanks x

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