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  • Jun 11, 2011, 11:01 AM
    issaim
    I beat up someone in front of his Gf?
    Guys Before I start I always fight , because when people disrespect I attack . So we where at school I'm in Great . He is in Gr7 that dude is pretty popular in his class and I'm popular in mine, I'm strong he's strong, But there is one difference I'm bodybuilder , Hes not. So we where in school , I minding my own business , But he did not mind his own . Ok il start what happened . He has a Girl friend . And he's pretty tough so he wanted to impress his Girl friend , so he told here wait till the recess and il beat up the strongest guy in Great (ME) . I don't want to brag but that's the fact . So... after the bell rang we went to recess . PS: his friend told me the story about his girlfriend etc . Ok the important thing is the bell rang , we went to the playground everyone know there will be a fight in his class , so they started going to watch the fight . So I was hanging with my friend eating he came and throw my lunch on floor and he said : YOU HAVE A PROBLEM! I looked at him did not hit him , so my friends went back because they know there will be a fight . So he told me what you don't hear and slapped me his girlfriend was watching . I did not move anything my hand or anything just stared . Because I did not want to heart him in front of his Gf . He told me *** with you making yourself strong on people and not fighting me . I stared on him and said : Are you sure . Before he Pronounced Yes , I jumped on him with hard punches . Back and forth fast hard . So he fell on ground I sat on him and pounded him . I was really mad that I hit him 1 VERY F****** HARD HIT ON HIS STOMACH ! He started to lose his consiouce . So his Gf screamed on me begging me to stop . I told HEre shut your mouth Mother F***** . But I was so mad and then I know I said something wrong so I left here Bf. And walked away with my friends , saying Good work... Wer proud of you . But I still feel AMAZINGLY sad for both of them because I said that HArd word to his girlfriend and about the strong punch on his stomach Did he deserve that . And what should I do to his girlfriend that she will forgive me . Because I'm not the kinde of guy that says bad words in real . I need your help
  • Jun 11, 2011, 11:13 AM
    Wondergirl

    Why didn't the school suspend both of you?
  • Jun 14, 2011, 06:02 AM
    JudyKayTee

    You are worried about using "bad words" in front of someone after bragging about how you beat someone up? What's wrong with you?

    And you're STILL talking about it over here - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-...ml#post2823445.

    In NY if you are a body builder (and you say you are) you are held to a higher standard when it comes to fights because you are presumed to have superior skills and training. You're lucky you weren't arrested.

    This is how it works - you beat up a smaller guy and are proud of yourself. Eventually a guy bigger than you beats you up, and he's proud of himself. Someone bigger than him beats him up. And so forth.

    Or you can stop fighting OR pick on people your own size.

    And, yes, why weren't you suspended?
  • Jun 14, 2011, 06:14 AM
    NeedKarma
    This sounds like someone on the "juice" who is bragging due to an unnatural increase in testosterone.
  • Jun 14, 2011, 06:57 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    This sounds like someone on the "juice" who is bragging due to an unnatural increase in testosterone.


    He's apologetic only for his "bad language." I think this is a brag, not a question. Next bully will put his hands on him, guaranteed.
  • Jun 14, 2011, 01:49 PM
    issaim
    Im telling u he slapped me and did bad thing and everyone waching what u want me to do ? Yeh sayyy ***
  • Jun 14, 2011, 01:55 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by issaim View Post
    IM TELLING U HE SLAPPED ME AND DID BAD THING AND EVERYONE WACHING WHAT U WANT ME TO DO ?

    You're the body builder with the bar set higher for you. You make friends with him, that's what you do.
  • Jun 14, 2011, 02:32 PM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by issaim View Post
    IM TELLING U HE SLAPPED ME AND DID BAD THING AND EVERYONE WACHING WHAT U WANT ME TO DO ? YEH SAYYY ***


    No using caps and speaking English instead of text would be a good start. Not bragging about the fight would be another positive move.
  • Jun 14, 2011, 03:13 PM
    issaim
    U all are wrong

    Tell u what next time I will let him kick my *** and be a pathetic loser so u would be happy that what u all need
  • Jun 14, 2011, 03:25 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by issaim View Post
    u all are wrong

    tell u what next time i will let him kick my *** and be a pathetic loser so u would be happy that what u all need

    Actually, no, we aren't wrong. You have the potential to be a real leader. You're the strong one that younger kids can look up to. You could become a really important trendsetter instead of just another street punk. Right now you are a loser. Why not become a winner?
  • Jun 14, 2011, 03:36 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by issaim View Post
    u all are wrong

    tell u what next time i will let him kick my *** and be a pathetic loser so u would be happy that what u all need

    u = you
    I = I
    No swearing on this site.

    Write in proper English, the best English you can write. Chat speak/text talk is against the rules, so is swearing, continue this and you will be reported.

    You're so worried abut your bad language. I am too. You have a real potty mouth. Many words you've typed here have been deleted. I'd get some control over that.

    You are also a bully. Fighting and then bragging about it, is not cool. I don't understand why you didn't just walk away from this kid. But I guess you like feeling tough. :(
  • Jun 14, 2011, 07:55 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    You proved that you are a thug and a loser, and have no chance to live a real productive life.

    You have no idea how real and respectable people behave.
    And to be honest will be glad when you are laying on the ground, which will happen, since there is always someone a little stronger and a little faster.

    You say you always get into fights, so I will suspect you are also a bully and harm others who violate some silly status you expect.

    You would not last a week in a real gym with real men who understand self respect, since you don't have it.
  • Jun 15, 2011, 03:14 AM
    issaim
    I take this thing in life : who dissrespect I Dissrespect who respect I respect
    Like that guyz he dissrespect me slaped me and told everyone bad things about me
    Il be a whimp if I didn't react like this
  • Jun 15, 2011, 03:42 AM
    NeedKarma
    The hood is a tough place indeed.

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