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  • Jun 11, 2011, 06:59 AM
    LOUGHLIN75
    Does my boss like me quiz?
    Does my boss like me

    My children have been doing karate for approx 10 yrs now so I know all the old people and the new ones that attend.. going back last year I was offered a job there as receptionist and p/a to the Boss who I have known for the same amount of time we have been with them... as the time as progressed we have had some laughs and jokes he has been there if we have needed him and he is a very caring person...
    My question is does he fancy me in some way

    When he is there he is very professional and never have made a move on me, and yet I seem to be getting some mixed feeling's about him and the way he acts sometimes... perhaps its just me reading too far into it
    When he talks to me he has this little nickname for me which he always calls me by, when he is near me I can sometimes feel him breathing on my neck and when I make a comment he laughs it off and says he was just checking I was making no mistakes and laughs, he always calls me love too and on but a few occasions he has brushed passed me and caught my bum and said sorry ( in relation to this we do work in quite a confined area so this could be an accident) when we are talking he asks my opinion on some things, and when we talk we talk about home, kids and life in general as he lives about 3 hrs from where he works he stays over on weekdays by himself and I know he misses home and kids but loves his business and his wife and him understand that he has to be away to build it further.. this one particular evening in work I was really cold and he offered me his jacket that same evening in work during the class for our advanced students who are helpers they were next door and he was on the computer as I walked past he sparked up a conversation and we took a trip down memory lane when he found some pictures of students going back years I asked him to send them to me and he did... and on the e-mail he made a comment of a picture he sent of himself and asked if I liked it.. DOES HE LIKE ME ? CONFUSED ?
  • Jun 11, 2011, 07:03 AM
    NatuaralThinker
    Yes I would say. Men usually flirt more indirectly with woman they like. Just to make sure send a signal like a wink or a bigger then normal smile and see if he takes the opportunity.

  • Jun 12, 2011, 09:15 AM
    adviceishere

    He is your boss and I think he is acting professionally and very friendly, but nothing more. He just seems like a nice guy by the sounds of things. I think you are reading too much into this.
  • Sep 10, 2011, 04:07 PM
    OnlyLavi
    Oh yah definitely!! Man will always find an excuse to tuch you if is atracted. But I guess only time will tell as I sense you are atracted to him too:) Ofering you his coat when you are cold... Shall we spell it out? Trust your instinct you will know when he looks at you!
  • Sep 10, 2011, 05:41 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    And people bump into others by accident at times, for no reason.

    It sounds more like someone who has become friends over 10 years and is a polite person, a proper male offers his coat, that is called being a gentleman.

    Is he single ? Are you single ?
  • Oct 4, 2011, 02:03 AM
    Amrali
    Very fact thing is that don't go for this way because if you will be entrusted so you will busy in that thing and you will loss your consiouse about your work so till when you will work very properly till then he will take intrust also and if not so he will fire to you and you will feel loser, so just think about your work only,, Amrapaliiiiiiiiiiiii

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