I picked my gay male best friend up one night because he was to intoxicated to drive, when we got to his house he kept telling me he loved me. By the way I am a female who is totally in love with him and he knows this but I have kept that under control... when he said I love you it was no big deal because we tell that to each other all the time.when he kept repeating that I said, I know that you do but not in the way I love you and he said yes... yes I do to. Its just really hard for me to express my feelings for people that I care about and I hope you understand.so then I said as he was getting out of the car, come here with the intentions of hugging him but wanting to kiss and he started kissing me then he pulled away and we said goodnight. Nothing more was said of that night till a couple months later and he denied it all and said he was just drunk that he is gay and always will be... im so confused is he really bi and in love with me too? By the way I am in the middle of a divorce could he be holding back because of that?

He was probably drunk and curious.

Listen to what he says here-he's gay and always will be.

Get your divorce and heal from the broken up marriage

Before you start thinking about any new partner.

Don't let what a drunk says, or does, give you false hope. He is gay, always was, always will be, and you are his just his good female friend.

Sorry, you could not be more wrong. Drunken thoughts and actions are merely sober thoughts finally revealed. We are a couple now and couldn't be more happier. I know it will be challenging but I'm looking forward to enjoyomg every single moment!

So you are couple now? After you posted your question not even 24 hours ago?

WOW! That was quick!

I know right... when I shut down my computer, he was at my door and said we needed to talk and that he had some questions for me. To say the least we ended up spending the night just holding each other, simply the best night ever! Every day is simply a blessing being with him... together :)

Like any relationship, enjoy it while it lasts.

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Originally Posted by southernbelle4

sorry, you could not be more wrong. drunken thoughts and actions are merely sober thoughts finally revealed. we are a couple now and couldnt be more happier. i know it will be challenging but im looking forward to enjoyomg every single moment!

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Not exactly and don't live your life by your own words. I have had many drunken thoughts I never would act on in my life. Its an altered state of mind.

If you're a couple already then good for you both. I hope it works and I hope your happy. I have to say honestly I don't think this will work. I think you may be his last thing to confirm he is gay. I have seen this more then once. If he said he was gay then I am sure inside he feels gay. Simple as that. He might not leave you today or next week. But I am sure he will be with a man again.

At the end of the day.. what's meant to be is meant to be. Love conquers all.