My ex has custody of our 3 kids. I have visitation. Can he take the kids and move out of state or do I have some control over this. Kids are 12 (twins) & 13. They don't want to go. Have lived in same house and gone to same schools all of their life.

What state are you in?

Generally, if his move would interfere with your visitation, he will have to ask the court for permission to take the children with him, should he move.

Sorry, Indiana

Thank you

IC 31-17-2.2-1
Notice of intent to move residence; modifying orders; attorney's fees
Sec. 1. (a) A relocating individual must file a notice of the intent to move with the clerk of the court that:
(1) issued the custody order or parenting time order; or
(2) if subdivision (1) does not apply, has jurisdiction over the legal proceedings concerning the custody of or parenting time with a child;
And send a copy of the notice to any nonrelocating individual.
(b) Upon motion of a party, the court shall set the matter for a hearing to review and modify, if appropriate, a custody order, parenting time order, grandparent visitation order, or child support order. The court shall take into account the following in determining whether to modify a custody order, parenting time order, grandparent visitation order, or child support order:
(1) The distance involved in the proposed change of residence.
(2) The hardship and expense involved for the nonrelocating individual to exercise parenting time or grandparent visitation.
(3) The feasibility of preserving the relationship between the nonrelocating individual and the child through suitable parenting time and grandparent visitation arrangements, including consideration of the financial circumstances of the parties.
(4) Whether there is an established pattern of conduct by the relocating individual, including actions by the relocating individual to either promote or thwart a nonrelocating individual's contact with the child.
(5) The reasons provided by the:
(A) relocating individual for seeking relocation; and
(B) nonrelocating parent for opposing the relocation of the child.
(6) Other factors affecting the best interest of the child.
(c) The court may award reasonable attorney's fees for a motion filed under this section in accordance with IC 31-15-10.
As added by P.L.50-2006, SEC.7.


C 31-17-2.2-3
Notice; information requirements
Sec. 3. (a) Except as provided in section 4 of this chapter, an individual required to file a notice under IC 31-14-13-10 or section 1 of this chapter must:
(1) send the notice to each nonrelocating individual:
(A) by registered or certified mail; and
(B) not later than ninety (90) days before the date that the relocating individual intends to move; and
(2) provide the following information in the notice:
(A) The intended new residence, including the:
(I) address; and
(ii) mailing address of the relocating individual, if the mailing address is different than the address under item (I).
(B) The home telephone number of the new residence.
(C) Any other applicable telephone number for the relocating individual.
(D) The date that the relocating individual intends to move.
(E) A brief statement of the specific reasons for the proposed relocation of the child.
(F) A proposal for a revised schedule of parenting time or grandparent visitation with the child.
(G) A statement that a parent must file an objection to the relocation of the child with the court not later than sixty (60) days after receipt of the notice.
(H) A statement that a nonrelocating individual may file a petition to modify a custody order, parenting time order, grandparent visitation order, or child support order.
(b) Except as provided in section 4 of this chapter, if the relocating individual is unable to provide the information required under subsection (a)(2) not later than ninety (90) days before the relocating individual intends to move, the relocating individual shall provide the information in the manner required under subsection (a) not later than ten (10) days after the date that the relocating individual obtains the information required to be provided under subsection (a)(2). However, the relocating individual must provide all the information required under subsection (a)(2) not later than thirty (30) days before the relocating individual intends to move to the new residence.
As added by P.L.50-2006, SEC.7. Amended by P.L.1-2007, SEC.194.

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Originally Posted by sheriebear1

Can he take the kids and move out of state

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Yes if:
1. He has your permission.
2. He has modified court order.

P.S.
If he moves out of state without your/written/ permission or court order,he can be charged with parental kidnapping.

Another article which has to be considered:

IC 31-17-2.2-5
Motion to prevent relocation; burden of proof
Sec. 5. (a) Not later than sixty (60) days after receipt of the notice from the relocating individual under IC 31-14-13-10 or this chapter, a nonrelocating parent may file a motion seeking a temporary or permanent order to prevent the relocation of a child.
(b) On the request of either party, the court shall hold a full evidentiary hearing to grant or deny a relocation motion under subsection (a).
(c) The relocating individual has the burden of proof that the proposed relocation is made in good faith and for a legitimate reason.
(d) If the relocating individual meets the burden of proof under subsection (c), the burden shifts to the nonrelocating parent to show that the proposed relocation is not in the best interest of the child.
(e) If the nonrelocating parent fails to file a motion under subsection (a), the relocating individual who has custody of the child may relocate to the new residence.
As added by P.L.50-2006, SEC.7.

Thank you Very Helpful Info :)

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Originally Posted by sheriebear1

Thank you Very Helpful Info :)

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Not at all. You are always welcome.
P.S.-do not forget IC 31-17-2.2-5 Not later than sixty (60) days after receipt of the notice from the relocating individual under IC 31-14-13-10 or this chapter, a non relocating parent may file a motion seeking a temporary or permanent order to prevent the relocation of a child.