Ok well I'm 14, and this guy realllly likes me, and I feel the same way about him. I think it's love, but then again no one really knows how to define love. Back to the point. Well schools out and I won't be able to see him for a while if we don't get together at this park (which happens to be really close to both of us) and we've gotten together several times.. but we've always had at least 2 other friends of ours. Every weekend, he asks me if we can meet there.. alone, and EVERY weekend I keep avoiding it. Only because I'm terrified to be alone with him.. I'm afraid it will be too awkward.. and I KNOW that he wants to kiss me, because we were at this party playing truth or dare, and he was dared to kiss me. He rejected because he saw my face.. I blushed BRIGHT red it was so embarrassing. But anyway after the party he messaged me.. he said "Did you want me to kiss you?" and of course I really wanted to kiss him, but not in front of all those people.. so I told him that. He replied with "I feel the same way, i want to kiss you sooooooo bad but we're never alone." So now you're all caught up. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO! PLEASEEEEE HELLPPP! (keep in mind that I've never had my first kiss so I'm terribly scared, and I keep running through all of the worst cases of what might happen) HELLPPP!! What should I do??

Relax, that first kiss is scary, but it will come when you are ready, and the time is right. No need to worry about that.

I don't know. I still have no idea how to go about this.. but whatever.. I guess your right thank you.

Taller why?

When you're standing in front of him and he seems to be edging toward a kiss, tilt your face up toward his, open your lips a little bit, and close your eyes.

Thank you. You truly are wondergirl.. haha

I wonder if you are ready for this. If you weren't you wouldn't be so scared.

I'm sorry Wondergirl, but if you were giving MY 14 year old this advice I would be very upset with you.

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Originally Posted by J_9

I wonder if you are ready for this. If you weren't you wouldn't be so scared.

I'm sorry Wondergirl, but if you were giving MY 14 year old this advice I would be very upset with you.

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I apologize and will not post further.

Honey, at 14 I think it's too young to meet alone at the park. Have you asked your parent's permission to do this?

If you were ready to kiss, you wouldn't be quite so nervous. Don't rush yourself. Don't rush growing up. You have plenty of time for your first kiss.

Hello, now I know the feeling, because My girlfriend at them moment had her first kiss with me so she told me how she felt and it is quite scary yes and you want to make sure it is something to remember, What I done is I took her too the movies and walked her most of the way too her house but not to the door (because her best friend was there who is my Ex) we stopped and cuddled for a while and I tried to kiss her, but she moved and turned her head, but I tried again and kissed her, I got butterflies and everything I had the biggest smile on my face it was unreal, you could do the same but kiss in the park (He will make the first move)I hope this helps :)<3

I do think its only natural to be scared having your first kiss. You are young and this could also play a role in your fears. But whatever choice you make keep it at a kiss. I am not saying run out and do this. But just use your head. Don't let anyone pressure you to do anything you are not comfortable with.