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  • Jun 4, 2011, 06:30 AM
    UnknownLover
    I'm confused. Should I keep hanging with her?
    I'll put two questions here so that I don't have to do 2 posts. Also, the two questions have to do with the same story. I hope you don't mind.
    Story first: about a month ago, I went to a birthday of a friend of mine and I met two girls who interested me. One is smart, attractive and fun. Let's name her girl A. The other one is more attractive, funnier, interesting, but not so smart. She's girl B.
    Girl B started showing some interest in me since that day. But, as I wasn't that interested in her, I didn't really care (and I regret it now. You'll find out why). At that time, girl A seemed the kind of girl I was looking for. So I talked to my friend about girl B and he said she was a b****, always flirting with everyone, dressing provocatively, etc. She asked me out along with girl A and some other friend of her. We went out last night.

    1- The smarter one seems to be playing games with me. This isn't an important question but I'm confused. Either she backs off because I'm near her (ex. In a crowd area, somewhere our bodies accidentally touch) and I don't really care, or she asks me to carry her piggyback, plays around with me, makes effort to spend extra time with me. I think this has to do with the places we are. If we are on the street, she's fun to be around. If we are on a bar, she just backs off, gets away from me, etc. Also, she ignores my textes. Why is that? I'm confused.

    2- Girl B, the most attractive one, is always showing interest in me. Yesterday I found out I may be interested in her as well, so I left her on her home (without going in) and we talked for a while. Idk if she was drunk (the 1st time we met she had driken a lot more and she seemed fine), but when I was kissing her on the cheek, she went for my lips and kissed me. It wasn't that much of a surprise to me. I didn't kiss back and just went away. I thought I would regret it. Now I don't. She said that I could ask her out whenever I wanted. It didn't seem much of a problem until 30m ago, when I asked my friend (the same one who insulted her) if she had a boyfriend. He said they're dating since last Monday. I have no idea what to do now.
  • Jun 4, 2011, 06:42 AM
    J_9

    You only need to place one question. Please do not post the same thing multiple times.
  • Jun 4, 2011, 06:44 AM
    UnknownLover
    Comment on J_9's post
    Yea I know. I didn't see this question on my question list so I thought it hadn't been posted yet.
    I deleted the other one. Sorry
  • Jun 4, 2011, 03:38 PM
    talaniman

    Forget A and B! Look for C,D,E, and even F! You need better options.

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