Saving my wife from a lover

How do you "Save" someone from something they are doing voluntarily. Or may not want saved from.

YOU aren't doing anything without her equal cooperation and professional counseling. Unless a divorce is involved.

Let the lover have her, and get a real woman for a wife. One you don't have to share with someone else.

She is only a wife in name only.

Or is it save her from a marriage she hates.

What are you doing to try and save the marriage ?

You can't save someone that doesn't want to be saved. She has her lover, and obviously that's who she wants.

You can only save yourself. Leave, find someone that loves you as much as you love her.