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  • Jun 2, 2011, 08:09 PM
    Just Dahlia
    How big is too big
    What is an average size penis circumference?
    I am really curious because I am not sure if I have been missing out or been really lucky.:eek::rolleyes:
  • Jun 2, 2011, 10:14 PM
    afaroo

    To give you advice, we need your age. It is a requirement of the Adult Sexuality Board, Thanks.

    John
  • Jun 2, 2011, 10:44 PM
    Curlyben
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by afaroo View Post
    To give you advice, we need your age. It is a requirement of the Adult Sexuality Board, Thanks.

    John

    LOL.

    Fair play for asking, but not actually needed in this case ;)
  • Jun 2, 2011, 10:47 PM
    justcurious55

    If I recall correctly, you're an adult. Lol so here goes

    Human penis size - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
    According to wikipedia, 4.9 inches. In my limited experience, size doesn't matter as long as they know what to do with it. One of my last boyfriends was on the larger size but but clueless about what to do with it.
  • Jun 3, 2011, 07:47 AM
    Synnen

    Can you get your hand comfortably around it?

    Then it's not too big :D
  • Jun 3, 2011, 10:04 AM
    smoothy

    If he passes out from blood loss during arousal , its too big.

    You don't need a Tractor trailer to go pick up a loaf of bread at the corner market, when a moped will get you there.

    But averages were posted earlier...
  • Jun 3, 2011, 02:32 PM
    jenniepepsi

    Too big depends on the girl. I can take and prefer girth over 2 inches. But I can't take lenth anymore than 5 or so. Where as a friend of mine prefers very long but very narrow. Its all about what YOU like :)
  • Jun 3, 2011, 04:21 PM
    justcurious55

    Quote:

    Just Dahlia finds this helpful : is that length?
    Wiki said that's the average for circumference. I only skimmed the part of the article where it talked about length, and there was something about self reports being different than other studies or something
  • Jun 3, 2011, 04:25 PM
    Alty

    I just have to say, it's not the size of the stick, but the magic in the wand that matters.

    I've had small, big, and everything in between. OMG! That doesn't sound good. :o

    My point is, it's not the size that really matters, it's the person, and what he does with what he's got.

    If you're happy with what he's got, that's all that matters. :)
  • Jun 4, 2011, 02:00 AM
    Stringer

    Where is Ex I can't believe that he missed this one...
  • Jun 4, 2011, 04:25 AM
    excon
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Stringer View Post
    Where is Ex I can't believe that he missed this one...

    Hello:

    I'm here... The answer is 14...

    excon
  • Jun 4, 2011, 06:05 AM
    JudyKayTee
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by excon View Post
    Hello:

    I'm here... The answer is 14...

    excon



    Length or girth?
  • Jun 4, 2011, 09:57 AM
    Synnen

    JD--does it hurt you? Do you enjoy it?

    It really is a personal preference.

    And honestly, I like a guy that knows how to use what he has to the best advantage over a guy that has a lot but can only use a small portion of it---usually only for HIS gratification.

    So--if both he and it please you, it's not too big.
  • Jun 4, 2011, 03:53 PM
    Stringer

    Missy, what was THAT all about?
  • Jun 4, 2011, 04:19 PM
    Enigma1999

    Ummm Missy, is it?

    Yeah...

    Justcurious was just making a valid point about size, and how it doesn't really matter, as long as the man knows what he is doing.

    This, I believe as well.

    So, before criticizing people, only after ONE post, you MIGHT want to consider treating people with respect. That is, if you want to keep a good name for yourself. K? Have a nice day :)

    Now back to Just Dahila, I'm with Alty, It's not the size, it's how he uses it.

    Does his size hurt?
  • Jun 4, 2011, 04:23 PM
    Stringer

    I learned many years ago that great sex and satisfaction comes when your partner has great sex and satisfaction. No hurry ups...
  • Jun 4, 2011, 06:21 PM
    Just Dahlia
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Synnen View Post
    JD--does it hurt you? Do you enjoy it?

    It really is a personal preference.

    And honestly, I like a guy that knows how to use what he has to the best advantage over a guy that has a lot but can only use a small portion of it---usually only for HIS gratification.

    So--if both he and it please you, it's not too big.

    Seriously, yes he knows how to use it and yes it hurt at first and then burned a little, almost didn't work.
    I'm wondering if it was just me (no sex for over a year) or if it's ever going to work?
    Kind of freaked me out:eek: but intriguing at the same time:rolleyes:

    Could this be a deal breaker? Of no fault to anyone?

    EDIT:: Yes I enjoyed it, but not the pain.
  • Jun 5, 2011, 07:35 AM
    Synnen

    Was there enough lubrication?

    And... the clincher question... were you really ready?

    If the answer to both is yes, then you're going to have to talk to him about it. You shouldn't have pain during sex (well, unless that's what you're aiming for. Some people like that). If it's just a matter of going a little slower to accommodate the size, or adding a bit more lubrication, I think you're fine.
  • Jun 5, 2011, 03:23 PM
    justcurious55

    Missy? Me trying to make a valid point? I was off for a few days. Did I miss something?

    I think like the others said, it is all about knowing what to do with it and both partners being comfortable. And syn is right about the lubrication, adding a little extra can make a huge difference.
  • Jun 5, 2011, 03:57 PM
    Just Dahlia
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by justcurious55 View Post
    missy? me trying to make a valid point? i was off for a few days. did i miss something?

    i think like the others said, it is all about knowing what to do with it and both partners being comfortable. and syn is right about the lubrication, adding a little extra can make a huge difference.

    You missed some mixed up person that took what you said personally and in the wrong way. Her or His post was deleted. It was completely uncalled for in the first place.;)

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