Hi. I'm 21 and have been married for almost two years now. My husband keeps threaten to kick me out if I don't go and do things with him but, he sits on his butt and plays video games all the time. I have nothing I my name here but, my dishes, funrniture and things like that. I have a car but not a good paying job. What does this mean? Does he have another woman?

My dear you married too young. This sounds like your husband is immature (and maybe you are too). A loving relationship should not include threats (as he is doing) and jealousy (as it sounds you might have issues there). Life will always be what you make it, if you stay in an unhappy/unhealthy situation than that is what you'll be. If you don't have children together you may want to consider leaving. Either way, you need to do something, not making any changes will keep you on the same track. Every passing minute is a another chance to turn it all around.

It means your husband is lazy and has found a way to control you by threats, this is a serious method of abuse. ( not physcial) but emotional.

You say do things "with him" not for him, what type of things