Hi the other day I was a little bored so I decided to go on this website and seen someone in the area that I live in on there so I sent her a message we got talking on msn and she seemed a really nice girl. I was talking to someone I work with and he said he kind of knows her as he was at a party and lost his mobile and she gave it him back, for someone to do this it seems like she is a honest and decent person and I would really like to get to know ask her if she is interested in meeting eventually.

1 Do you it is OK to do this?

2 How long should I wait until I ask her if she would like to meet up?

Why wait, there is nothing wrong with that, my mom and stepdad met online...

There's nothing wrong with meeting up! Go ask her! ;) why wait? Good luck

I'm sorry but I disagree never meet up with someone online a big NO
Anyone can lie over the interenet

I'd say asking her to see a movie or go to dinner would be better.. But I like to talk to them on the phone first.. It's a little easier to figure out what someone is meaning if you can hear their voice. A public meeting place would be a good idea. I wouldn't take her to your house until you know her better.

This is a really old post... January 27, 2007... so he prob either met this girl already, or dropped the whole idea... either way its over 2.5 years old ;)