Hi! I am constantly having crushes, seem to be so attracted to and maybe falling for men who are actually gay. Of course, I'm crushed because they won't ever like me. These gay guys are really good looking, sweet, polite, have good manners... lots of things that I look for and more. I'm a straight female. What gives?

Small sample size. Keep looking.

You need to broaden your horizon missy.

All the qualities you mention are not only found in gay men. But since it appears you surrond yourself with gay men, I'm thinking you need to keep looking - perhaps get to know some single men, and they too could have the qualities that you want.

Lots of reason to why you crush easely on others.

Could be you just got out of a relationship and are in desperete need of love.
Could be that you are in a part of your life where you want to settle down.
Could be that your feeling lonely and are looking for someone to love you.


But chasing gay guy's isent the brighest of idea's, so (small sample size, keep looking) get to know more males gay or straight preferably straight since they are the easiest for you to start a relationship with.



And before you assault anymore answers because they gave a short answer to match your short answer, you have given very little detail - not much for us work with.. basically we know you're a straight female with infatuation problems for gay males.

You want a quality guy, who is yes-good looking. It's common to want someone who looks so attractive. You just hope its not true, but if that's who they like- oh well. Nothing's wrong with you. Just try to turn on your 'gaydar' to not get your hopes up too high in the future.

Do you just hang around where gay guys are? How many gay guys have you had crushes on?

Start talking to nerds. As long as they're modest, they make the best companions you'll ever find. Plus, when you get to know what wonderful people they are on the inside, they begin to look far more attractive. Sources: Happily married to one. ^_^

Sometimes we are attracted to those we know we can't have. That's what makes them attractive.

Plus crushes come and go. Endlessly, no matter how old we get. How do you know that the gay guys aren't BI? Many are you know. How old are you?