Hi, I am 24years old and my boyfriend is 24years old we have been going out now for almost 1year. And we have an apt. togother now for about 5months. My question is how to make myself not so wet, and I mean before and during sex, I know most people say it's a blessing but for me its not. It to the point of where my boyfriend avoids me and says he has no pleasure from it at all. We do have a good relationship other then that. But I'm worried I'm going to loose him over it, and I've told him and he says he isn't going anywhere. And that he loves me. Please help me!! It basically brings back that saying as wet as a glass of water

Well anyway thank you to all the people who have read my problem but have chosen not to try and help me out with it.
But I figured out what to do on my own.
And that was to follow his *** around the apparment until he would give me an answer,
After that I threatened to leave him, and he beged me to stay and I did but I had condections that we needed to start talking our problems out and if I'm getting on his nerves to let me know and ill leave and give him some space for a couple of hours and ill do the same but the main thing is that we need to talk things out if were going to make it work. Oh and come to find out the to wet thing is do to the steriods(I have and eye infection and they put me on them) so hopefuly it shoould be back to normal after I'm done with them.

There is a difference between being unwilling and unable to help you out. I personally have no idea how to deal with being too wet.

Sorry.

And I was in bed asleep when you posted your question, so this is the first time I have even seen it. Please remember that we are all volunteers here, and while there are several of us that have experience helping with Adult Sexuality issues, not all of us know the answer to every question.

I'm glad that you worked out an answer--and so FAST, too! You figured it out yourself in an hour!

We're happy to help you as we can, but we don't all know the answers to all of the questions, and sometimes the people who know the answer to your question are not online because they live in a different part of the world than you do and are working or sleeping when you ask your question.

Your attitude astounds me - I had no advice for you and it is against the rules to post "I don't know."

But because you want my advice, here it is - "I don't know."