I lost my virginity about a year ago now,your first time you don't feel pleasure,but I've had sex a good few times now and I'm use to it,but I still don't feel pleasure when I have sex nowadays but when I pleasure myself I feel everything.. what could be wrong ?

How old are you?

No nothing is wrong with you.. girls have much more feeling in their clitoris than their actual vagina.
I personally have only *** about 5 times with just sex.. other times I have to play with myself during sex or I won't ***.

It also helps that your comfortable with the person your having sex with because from my experience it didn't matter how good the sex was I wasn't into it enough for it to feel amazingly good just because I wasn't comfortable with the person.

When your comfortable enough to start fooling around with different positions and techniques you'll be able to find what works and what doesn't for you. Personally some positions drive me wild others I can hardly feel a thing. Have some fun and play around and work out what feels good for you and don't be afraid to help sex along a bit by playing with yourself during it.

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