I'm tired my daughter comes over she got upset because she bought a plate from one of her friends for me I didn't like the food and she really got upset then my son calls and said he got fired today then my niece got upset because I wouldn't babysit for her and my other daughter I mean it was like they just exploded all at once I have diabetes and other health problems I can't take all this I just start exploding it all on my husband when he got home yes he was in the line of fire unfortunately what should I do help me please

Want to hear me vent? (Say no, I have my sister to vent to, mainly, and others.)
First: apologize to your husband. Apologies work wonders. Ask him to tell you what awful things happened to him recently.
Then sigh and vent to someone in person, someone close.
Then tell all these young'uns that you are no longer Mrs. Nice Guy.
Call your son back and tell him you feel really bad that he lost his job, and ask him over for dinner.
Call your daughter back and say you should have just thanked her and not eaten the food and not said anything, but that then she might have bought one again.
Call the niece back and tell her that if she ever gets angry at you for not babysitting again, that will be the last she ever gets any babysitting from you.

I am not really sure what to say because I don't know you or your children but I take care of a female with a lot of health problams and I have saved her life more than once she also has fam kids who try to make her feel bad because they desided they wanted to move because they don't like me... She never made them leave or ask them to but they try to make her feel bad when they are struggling and what I tell her and her husband is this you raised your children and they left your home you did not make them leave they think they are grown enough to take care of themselves they are all over 18 so your job is done once they signed there own lease it is only going to cause you heartace and stress marriage proplams and finacal also health so let them vent but ignore them tell them you and your husband are ready to live your lifes and worry about you... I don't mean push them away but tell them they are old enough to figuar the babysittin out you had to and the food issue just tell them you will eat it later and throw it away now your husband tell him sorry that you feel like telling the kids dose no good so you had to vent to someone... Jen