Spouse not supportive of dad's death
My father passed away recently far away which made me travel. We did not have the money for me to travel so my family lend me the money and I went. My husband did not go, but when I came back my husband did not even give me a shoulder to cry on nor did he show compassion. Any time that I have brought up the subject of my dad, he changes the conversation or just stays silent without a response. He is upset because I went knowing that we did not have the money and the 2nd thing is my husband can not understand why I cry so much when I have been so angry at my father all these years. My father was an alcoholic all his life, and I did have it very rough... but I was able to forgive my father before I knew he was ill. How can I make my husband understand what I am going through? Please any advice.. I am truly hurting and my husband does not listen to me.