This girl A in one of my classes and she if always flirting with my boyfriend and so is this other girl C I don't know what to do. I talked to C about it and she said she didn't mean to and she wnt do it anymore I mean if she likes him she could just tell me instead of lying I don't know if she is telling the truth or not! Should I be friends with C or not? What if she keeps lying to me? And A she is my boyfriends ex ex girlfriend and broke up with him but is flirting with him and faking getting hurt just to get attention from him and even more she is huggin him and messing around with him but not in a friend way and as a boy he doesn't know the difference in flirting and just being friends! Should I be friends with A or not?? What if she keeps flirting and trying to get attention?? Please help as soon as possible thanks

Duh! Haven't you heard, "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer"? If you stay frinds with them and they do take your guy away they're going to seem ridiculous for doing that to a friend.

OK well I don't understand what your saying but OK I guess I mean that doesn't tell me if I should be friends with them or not I'm confused!?

Lol sorry you should stay friends because if you become friends you can confront them a lot easier about things

At 13, it is easy to get caught up in fears especially since you have already had one break up with him.

He is the one who needs to deal with the other girls. It is part of growing up and being in a relationship.

You need to talk to him (talk, not fight or confront) and make certain you both have the same boundary lines and expectations.

If they are girls that you would normally be friends with, then make friends with them. They don't have to be enemies. For that matter, making them enemies could end up being an ego inflater for your boyfriend. Some males enjoy being fought over. If you think he is one, I suggest walking away.

Good luck.

Walking away from what? Him?

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walking away from what? Him?

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The whole mess: Him, the relationship, the other girls, etc.

If he is the type of male who likes girls fighting over him, then you do not want to be involved with him. Males who thrive on drama are not worth the aggravation they cause.

A girl can flirt with your boy frriend but if he is really in to you it does not mean anything it won't go any where.
The problem seems to be him not the girls.
If he is enjoying this, leave them all alone.

He doesn't thrive on drama he hates drama and he isn't the type who likes girls fighting over him he tries to get away from it! So do I still walk away?

If he doesn't like drama and is not causing it in any way, staying with him is up to you.

Why would you walk away just because girls are flirting with him?
If he ignores the girls, you do the same.

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