My mum controls my life she wants to be there 90% of the time when I see my friend
When I have social plans with my friend my mum goes all huffy and awkward she makes me feel like I should revolve my social life around her e.g if she want to go out to pubs we should always want toand if we don't , as we want to do something else she will go huffy like a kid and say horrible things. She sees other men behing my dads back when she wishes and she doesn't think twice about what I want to do on a weekend so she goes to hotels for sex with them and does what she wants when she wants, I never kick up a fuss but yet whenever I am doing something else she takes offence. I feel like she controls me , she critisces me just because I haven't found anyone special re my love life , but this coming from a woman who has 28 yr marriage with no sex or passion and she chooses to see other men, it's a marriage just for convenience as she can't bear a life alone with bills to pay (my dad pays them all) he once wanted to divorce her and she refused to sign the papers. So who is she to give me love life advice when her marriage is a sham!