Should I stay or should I go.
Hi I am new to this site so yea.
Anyway my question is should I leave my boyfriend/babys father?
I am only 20 and we have a little boy together whom I love, but latetly it seems like our relationship is falling apart. We have been together going on 5 years the 29th of this month and I can truly say I am in love with him, but it seems like I am the only one. I have fought for this relationship with my all because I love him and I believe my son deserves to have his father around. The issue is that he drinks a lot and he doesn't know how to control it, also when he drinks he like to take off with his single "friends" (they are guys as well) and leave me and my son behind at his dads house. See we go visit his dad about twice a week and he does this every time that we are there. He never lets me know ahead of time when he takes off and when he does he doesn't answer my phoone calls or texts, which bothers me because why wouldn't he answer unless of course he was hidding something... idk? This has been happening for months now and as of last night this happened again EXCEPT that this time his friend came back to his dads house ALONE... umm I didn't know what to think. I don't know what to do I've had enough of this already but I don't know ifi should leave him or not. I deffinatly don't trust him as of last night anymore. And I have tried and tried to sit and talk to him about this but he ignores me... is this a stupid reason for me to leave? I have never in my life done anything like that to him, I try really hard to keep him happy I am a great mom I cook I clean... I do anything he asks. But I am tired of giving and giving and just getting disrespected in return. I hate making myself sound like a victim but I honestly don't know what I am doing to drive him away. All I really want is to be considered a little bit, I know marrige comes with struggles and its not always beautifull, but I've struggled for too long and all alone. I don't have a ring on my finger to be strugguling like this but I am Woman enough to keep trying. Ive lost my faith in our realtionshio and I don't know what to do. All I want is my family back.