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  • May 18, 2011, 03:20 PM
    Pandabubba
    Dating
    I really like this guy. (im 13) and I don't know if he likes me. We talk we pass notes and I catch him looking at me sometimes. He's really nice. What shoukd I do?
  • May 18, 2011, 04:43 PM
    DoulaLC

    Keep doing what you are doing (although don't pass notes during lessons!). It sounds as though he does like you. Think about it... would you talk and pass notes to, or smile at someone you didn't like? :)

    What are your parents rules on dating?
  • May 18, 2011, 05:54 PM
    Pandabubba
    Comment on DoulaLC's post
    My parents rules are that I can't have a boyfriend for a while. But I really like him. But I think he has a girlfriend:(
  • May 18, 2011, 06:05 PM
    DoulaLC

    Ah well, it happens. But that doesn't mean you can't still talk with him. Just be respectful of his girlfriend and don't try to make it anything more than just a nice guy you talk to once in awhile when you're in class.

    Since he probably has a girlfriend, just be friends with him and get to know some of the other people at your school too. Sooner or later you will meet another guy you think is cute and really nice... :)
  • May 19, 2011, 03:28 PM
    Pandabubba
    Comment on DoulaLC's post
    Thank you. You are really helpful. Can I like give him hugs though? Or anything like that. Because I mean he's that kind of guy that I think you can do that to. Or would thaht be weird?
  • May 19, 2011, 04:08 PM
    DoulaLC

    Sometimes it can help to put yourself in another person's place to help decide what might be best in a situation. Would you be OK if other girls hugged a boyfriend of yours? If you aren't sure, better to skip it instead of risk causing any problems for him. If he goes to give you a quick hug, then go ahead.
  • May 20, 2011, 09:05 PM
    Pandabubba
    Comment on DoulaLC's post
    OK.I have another problem. I'm in a trio of friends and were pretty close. But recently (two days ago) they started dating! We've been friends for a while and we sit together at lunch. Now I feel like a third wheel whenever I around them. Everything is different now. Peole usedto joke about them going out and how theyd be cute together, but now they are and it kind of makes me uncomfortable. Because things aren't the same anymore. He took my seat at lunch and they're always together now. I never get time to talk to her anymore and it kind of makes me mad.ya I have other great friends but they have their groups too. I don't know what to do. Can you helpme with this to please? Oh by the way with your other question, you I kind of would be mad if other girls were hugging my boyfriend so I won't. Thank you. Hey why don't u check out my other post in teens about my mom cheating on my dad.thanks bye.
  • Jun 30, 2011, 01:10 PM
    Pandabubba
    Comment on DoulaLC's post
    I would just like u 2 know that it didn't work out. He didn't really like me. He lied and ripped my heart out and stomped on it. Thanks anyway

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