Is he a rebound? Or I only think that it is a rebound?
My ex and I had broke up but never really got a proper closure since we still hang out like we were a couple. Until I found out that she met a guy which her friends (who didn't like me from the first place) introduce to her. They texted, since I was 184Kms away from her, the guy fetch her often after work and dated twice when I was gone. But every time that I would be home, everything was still the same for us and I mean everything like nothing happened. Went away for my final exams, we had a huge argument and didn't communicate for 2days. On the third day, I found out that she already said yes to the guy.
After my final exams, I went home. Talk to her, confronted her and told her that I love her. And she said that she feels the same but can't be with me because she has already a boyfriend. But she still sleeps with me, have sex with me and everything. Eventually I am now very far from her and didn't communicate to her for 5days now. She stood me up the night before I left town.
She and my sister talk and she said that she had only said yes to the guy because of the pain she felt from me. She said she still loves me but she can't be with me. Is the guy a rebound? What should I do? I really want her back. Please do help me. I am so desperate, I can't pull myself back together. I need help and someone to talk to. She was my only friend, my best friend, someone who I can talk to, the important person in my life, my everything.
She is still texting me with I love you's and I miss you but I ignore her messages even though it hurts me so much.
They are on their second month next week. They already had sex and all. Tried to convince her to come back to me but to no avail.How long does a rebound last? Does it work? My ex is the long term relationship type of girl. She would always tell me how a gentleman the guy is and that he is too kind, caring, almost his ideal guy, the guy she never knew she wanted. :|