I broke it off after we agreed to take a break. We have seen each other for 10 months and he swore he loved me more than he ever has anyone. Our only problem was lack of intimacy which left me feeling undesired. When I tried to talk to him he clammed up. We had great sex for about a month and then it was two months between. The last time five. We got along great. He was very attentive no arguing except this one thing he couldn't talk about. I got fed up at his lack of trust in talking to me and when I ended up I'm the er and he didn't so much as text even though he knew as my Mom wrongly assuming he was with me tried to get ahold of him. When I asked him he said he didn't feel like talking that day. I broke it off pretty upset. I have tried speaking to him and texting but not often to not be crazy lol and it's been 6 weeks of no contact at all from him. Why won't he tell me to f***k off or take down my pics and all the posts on his profile of me saying how great he is from feb? Not much else is there so everyone can see it!!

Six weeks of no contact-there's your answer-you broke it off,and he took your word for it.

Go no contact yourself and don't text him or call him again.

As for his FB status,ignore it.

Time to move on.

I dearly love him with all my heart. I just got tired of him not talking to me about the one problem we had or doing anything about it. I can't seem to get over it. I miss him everyday. We talked about getting married and kids and no one has ever treated me better. Should I defriend him?

I would, and with hindsight,if a couple can't solve problems as a c o u p l e, it's not a working relationship-as two people who are committed to each other will do their outmost to overcome trouble together.

I'm sorry you're hurting,make sure you keep busy and have people to support you.

You know the old cliché,time's a great healer?

Well,it's true.

Facebook is just a website, it doesn't have any real value other than for networking, and is awesome for small businesses. You broke things off with him and he has left you alone... what more do you want? Isn't this what you asked for? You two are now broken up, why does it matter if he talks to you or not, you are no longer his girlfriend and he owes nothing to you. He is probably busy with other girls and doesn't have time to answer texts or to go searching and peaking at a website to delete evidence of his past, so do the same. Live your life, because he seems to be living his.

Good Luck,
Javi

I agree with Amicon, time is a great healer.

Every time you text him or look on his Facebook page you are allowing him to stay in your life, even though he seems to have let you out of his. So it may be time for you to let him out of yours.

I always delete ways to contact the guy. That way I'm not tempted to contact him, and then over a month or so, I finally move on. You broke it off for a good reason, now you just have to remind yourself why you broke it off, and forget about everything else!

Good luck!