In my situation.. is been almost months that we haven't talk.. well it starded 2 years ago when my ex girlfriend broke up with me.. I totally didn't want to do nothing in life anymore.. but I new I had to get over her and continue my life.so I dicided to go to church and I bumpt to and old friend(miriam).we spoke and disided to hang out.so we did.we went to movies and se will invite me to her house often and we will also talk in the phone a lot.. so starded to fall for her so one day I told her how I fealt about her.. it was OK for a few weeks, until she stop talking to me just like that.. she would not answer the pone or emails.. I starded to feel heart broken because I liked her and I didn't want our frienship to end just like that.. 8 month past and nothing happen.. one day she game me a card saying" i came up with a conclusion..me and you can't stop being friends because your awesome with me and my family" after that we spoke again for a few weeks.. and again she stop.. and until now she hasn't talk to me... and the bad thing is that I'm does type of guys that don't have the guds to go up to a girl and ask... I was doing fine back then.. I thing I'm just afraid about she will say..

I think your friend has other friends she talks to and hangs with, and maybe you should be doing the same and stop depending on her company to be happy.

That's not healthy dude. You should have your own life that you enjoy, and enjoy her when you see her, but don't depend on her.

Get me??

You have to focus on something else. You are not her only focus and she shouldn't be yours. So therefore if she is busy with whatever she does then you will have other people to talk to and hang out with.

Good luck,
Javi

I get the impression you get "hung-up" on people quite easily. My advice in your situation is to start interacting more with others. Get out there and have fun. No need to be worried about what people think or how people perceive you.

I would suggest getting to know yourself first. What can you do, with only yourself, that makes you happy?

Friends are people who can come and go as they please, but you know they are there for you. I haven't spoken to a good friend of mine in almost 3 months, but I know when I call, we'll talk for a while. That's the way friendships go sometimes.

---- Try no get obsessed with people or relationships.. it's not very healthy.