SO I have been going out with my girlfriend for like 1 year and 3 months and I really like her and we always have fun, but I just don't want to have sex with her anymore. I know I still have a strong sex drive I always have dirty thoughts looking at other girls. This is my first girlfriend and I am her first boyfriend I don't want to hurt her but she always ask why we don't have sex as often as we used to and I blame it on how I lost my job and had to move back with parents but I don't think that's it, the more she talks about having more sex the less I want it, is this normal time to move on or just a phase.

How old are you and your GF?

Why aren't you turned on by her anymore? Is it because she is your girlfriend? How old are you?

If you see someone ask for a person's age, don't answer the thread until the age is given.

There are severe liability issue in giving advice to minors. The forum is for people old then 18. I am not willing to risk being sued by the parents of a child who we gave advice to. Are you?

Im 22 and she's 23

When you enter into a relationship you will hurt the other person. This is inevitable. Most of the time it isn't a great hurt. If you don't want to hurt anyone then don't get involved.

As well most relationships have a best before date. Some will last forever, others will only last a year or two. It is the way of things.

While being tired, stress, unemployed, and living with the parents are aequate reason for a lose in libido I think there is another reason for this. Why are you not attracted to her any more?

Once you answer that then you get to answer if you want to stay with her. Don't stay with her just because, that is cruel to both of you. IF this relationship has in fact run it's course, then it might be time to break it off. Better sooner then later.