Is my boyfriend of 3 years cheating on me??
Hi I am new here so please take it easy.. :).. so the story is that I and my boyfriend of 3 years are madly in love with each other.. I am 18yrs and he is 21yrs.. we both want to marry each other... he is understanding and says I am the love of his life.. his angel etc :)and I have told him that I won't do sex before marriage.. I explained him lovingly, and he agreed and said that he will wait.. my honey doesn't force me on that... he lives with his parents... just about two months ago he went out of town to study, so he lives there alone in a room... it was all going great until that one fine day I just checked up his account and he had done a webcam sex chat with a stranger for 20 minutes... and I just freaked out!. I did'nt talk about this to him.. and I don't want to!. please can some males here explain me what does this mean?? Is he cheating on me??
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Thank you... I think you are right.. I should talk to him about this... although am not willing to.. I love him so much, I just feel afraid that will he get too defensive :( I dun know... but I think this is the only way to get this burden off me, as it is eating me inside *sigh*... so'll try to ask him today.. wish me luck
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"he was just tryingto fulfill what you won't give him. Not that it is something he is doing to hurt you because if he has been with you for three years like this and agreed to no sex until marriage he obviously respects your values as a person."... thanks a lot.. u gave me a bit relief... :).. and that communication part, I'm just so nervous about it.. can you tell me how should I confront? Like how to start?. thanks xoxo :)