Ok not to sound jealous or any thing but listen to this. My best friend for life and I are fighting and my crush and I are also fighting. My BFF got invited to a party that I was not and my crush was invited. My friend and I cheak each other messages and its full of my crushes messages! And her call log also is ful with him! My crush doesn't reply to my texts and call, my best friend all she does is speak about him. So I'm kind of jelous and need HELP :-(

Me and my best friend are fighting over dumb stuff. I speak behind her back because she stole my boy friend and I don't know if we should stay friends

Does this boy even know you like him and does you BFF know you like him?
If he likes her instead of you there is really not much you can do about it.
Of course you would be hurt, but if she is a good friend, talk to her about it and then get over it.

Why on earth do you check each other messages??

Does your friend know you like this guy?? I'm assuming it's a guy. Does your crush know you like him?

Hey there is nothing wrong with having jealous feelings, its normal, but just don't let it get out of control. Why are you fighting with both of them?

Leave each other with the privacy that you both should have. There is no use of checking up on each other, it is dumb. Also, tell her hjow you feel and see how she reacts, maybe you are right about not continuing this. Maybe she is not really a friend after all.

Good Luck,
Javi