My boyfriend caleb and me have a kind of good relationship the problem is he doesn't call. Another problem is how we have a long distance relationship(he lives in the bronx and I live in brooklyn).but I really love him, he makes me feel special when we talk. He says I love you so much, so many times. I used to spend my weekends talking to him, now I spend them crying and praying to god that he didn't forget me, its been 2 weeks and I haven't talked to him.

If you read thiz than tell me what should I do if he calls, doesn't call, does he really mean it when he says he loves me:confused: ?

Hello there, I don't know what's going on but just call up! don't wait for a call because that must be what he's doing! and just ask him about what's going on. By the way long distance relationships do work out sometimes if the two people like each other!
.Something like this happened with me as well not long distance but yeah, and well we started talking a lot and eventually it died away so I sort of just kept to myself hoping she might do something. I just didn't step up that's why. (it got no where, but then again I didn't even have chance)

So go STEP UP! ( I know it's the guys job but they can be shy as well)
All da best

Well, obviously you deserve a guy that will give you the time or day... honestly if you asked me... I'd say it doesn't really matter if he did or he didn't because you should ditch him anyway. If he really loved you he would call u... he would see u, you would know girl you wouldn't have to ask... long distance relationships are tough though too. Follow your heart. If your serious about this guy let him know how your feeling and see if maybe he will change. Or just give him the boot. There are plenty fish in the sea and you will find a guy worth your time... and a guy that wants your time. Good luck!!

Well if I were you just call him up and talk it out. Do you think maybe he hasn't called because--not to make you worry--something bad might have happened. Of course I don't know his 'rents but maybe he got grounded and can't talk on the phone or something stupid. Just give him a call... talk it out

Hil,
I agree w/ last post. It would really help if you called him up and tried to talk it out. However I have always heard that you can't believe what people say... we have to believe what they do. When I hear from my friends I know it's because they want to "connect" with me. They don't want to lose a connection. When I don't hear from them... it is easy to think that they are not thinking of me... it's hard to say fully because I don't know this guy -- but when you want to BE CONNECTED with someone... and at least hear their voice (even if one of you is in the BX and the other in BK)... and find out even how their day has gone.
I'll keep you in my prayers -- I hopte it works out.
~WarmBrown

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Yeap I agree

So it sounds like you haven't talked to him in 2 weeks. The first thing that came to my mind, is that he might not want to be with you but doesn't want to say it to you because he is afraid to hurt you. I know a lot of guys would say 'I love you' just to say it even though they might not mean it. The best advice I can say is try calling him, talk to him about your concerns, and if he doesn't give you an answer, or continues to not call, then move on. It might be hard, but you deserve someone who will call you and care about your feelings.
Hope this helped.
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