This girl I have known for a long time now has always said she loves me with all her heart f&a etc. but she got with another lad who she didn't love, they split up when she came to my house for the weekend then a couple days later there back together, she was still telling me she loved me but now she has started telling this other lad it after a couple weeks of going out, she won't say it to me any more but she still says she does with all her heart and always will, but the last couple days she won't text or call me because it annoys her new boyfriend but when we speak its like everything is OK :/ she even said ''you never know'' when I said I still really want to be with her, what should I do I'm so confused :/

You should text her or call her and tell her this guy gave me great advice which made me realize I'm being played for a fool!

How can she love you with all her heart yet entertain other people? Maybe she means she loves you Saturday through Wednesday and the other guy gets the rest of the week?

This does not end well, friend. She is obviously immature and acting quite the puppet master with both you fellas. It's on you, however, to see this and move far away from her. Otherwise you are to blame as well.

Listen to BMI, this is good advice. Let the other guy put up with her crap, but you get far away. It will only lead you down a wasted path.

She is lying through her teeth to you both, and doing her thing, and keeping you hanging on to her with her words, while her actions are with him.

You seriously believe her?? That's disgusting, almost as disgusting as you actually still giving your heart to someone who is with someone else.

You poor in love fool, you!

You should avoid her like the plague-what a lying little cheat!

Find some selfrespect and have nothing more to do with her.

I'm sorry, guy, but she is keeping you as her back up plan. She is thinking that no matter what, you'll be there. You're her second best.

You're good enough to be someone's first and last choice. Wait for that person.

In the words of a wise, wise man (Talaniman, actually :) ), "Never make someone a priority when all you to them is an option."

You're worth so much more.

You are being played, so what do you do? You leave! She is messing around with this other guy and has you wrapped around her little pinky and you are answering to her like a dog. Give her the cold shoulder and tell her that you won't be her playing thing anymore. Have some self respect and find a woman that wants to be with you and not one that is going to keep you warming up the bench while she plays with the other players.

Good Luck,
Javi

You've become the male "mistress". What are you waiting for? Get out ASAP!