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  • May 4, 2011, 08:30 AM
    tory_hurt
    Almost forever
    Well I've been with my boyfriend (ex now) for 2years and almost 8months.. and I'm only 15.. yesterday he made me break up with him.. I didn't want to break up I wanted to stay together and work things out.. but things ended for us and today I thought I could go to school and be strong and keep it together but it didn't help I walked in and everyone was talking about us and all my friends were telling me its okay.. and then one of my close friends told me that yesterday not even 24hours after we broke up.. he was flirting with EVERYONE AND TELLING THEM THAT HE BROKE UP WITH ME AND HE Didn't CARE ABOUT ME! And then today at school I left before 1st period.. I couldn't take it everything reminded me of him.. so I left school and my friend texted me and said "hey d**** is telling our whole bio class that he broke up with you and that he didnt care that you were hurt and that you were at home crying.." so I just got even more hurt.. I don't know what to do or how to move on.. I'm just so hurt and broken-hearted about this whole thing and it just really hurts to know that he doesn't care that he just let all this time go down the drain.. I just really need to move on so can anyone tell me what to do please?
  • May 4, 2011, 08:42 AM
    kraftykitten
    Hi. I understand that you are hurting. But, this guy is just showing you what a real moron he really is. He's acting the big tough guy and showing that he doesn't care - but in reality, he's just being immature and showing off to his mates. You don't need someone like that in your life. You are only fifteen and believe me, I went through this too at your age but when I look back at it now, I think I was silly for liking the boy that I did. I know it doesn't seem like this makes sense, but you are better to be without him. You are still growing up. You will meet other boys and hopefully they will repspect you better. Don't get depressed over him. He is not worth it, I promise. Smile and be with your friends. He isn't worth any of your tears. I suggest that you don't retaliate or respond to his behaviour as then he will know that it annoys you. Ignore him and anyone else who are horrible to you. In time, you will meet another boy. Honestly, you will be okay, even though it doesn't seem like it now. Hold your head up high, be confident and show the world that you can move on from this. I wish you good luck.
  • May 28, 2011, 05:26 PM
    fednerbassman95
    Sorry half my gender sucks... hope this song helps
    http://www.myspace.com/localh/music/songs/no-problem-live-51232193

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