We had it pretty good we never dated but had it good had sex few times. Which was pretty good. But on valentines day he calls me and tells me some kind of **** that I hated and I cried after wards I was pissed. I told I had to go and I or he didn't talk for over 3 weeks. Yes I was dying. Than he emails me on the 7th of march saying he wants me back and all I took him back the next day.I guess, but that only lasted for not even a ****ing week.. no we did not have sex or see each other. Anyway after that we didn't talk to for over a week and he texts me middle of the freaking night on the 20th of march and I didn't reply because I thought it was sucky the text. Following April 1 he texts me again early saying ' what up girl I got the weed if your interested :)'ya I was happy he texted me but I though it would be like a sorry or somewhat. But no. I replied few days later saying " HA NICE NO LONGER CELL IGHT.. he never replied or anything which hurt a lot. I truly miss him still I have like 2 other guys I'm talking to right now but they don't compare. He don't know how crazy I am over him been so long that's the ridiculous part! I just want to tell him or yell at him. Like how could you just stop talking to me like that? I would really happy if he wanted me back. I want you back baby v_v

Why do you want to go back for more of the same BS?

Pick yourself up and get your head straight-sort your life out and eventually find someone who respects you and who wants to date you.

He is unsure of himself and can't be relied on. That's worse than any good qualities. Not worth your time. Forget about it. If he really really likes you, then he will actually be putting effort into seeing you as much as possible. He is probably just looking for company but nothing serious, so back off. p.s. guys lie, or pretend (but could be honestly pretending to themselves) to like a girl in order to get laid

You fell for a guy who only wants a booty call, and that's all!!

That's why you save the sex until after you know what they really want!

No he didn't pretty sure he wanted the sex and so did I. there was so many times we could have had but no.my question is.. really you I'm over him guy but I just really need someone to tell me what I did was a smart thing to not talk to him or ask him back. I so badly want to but no I won't. It would be stupid. But the question is does he think I was kind of smart like I didn't fall for his bullcrap.. and is not showing how much I like him and dying from all this very hurt.but he don't know. So could you tell me

I do because I guess I'm lonely.. I have 2 other guys but one is kind of far.. and other is kind of lame and neva hang out... but I do want him back.. I think if he did fight for me I will but maybe ill consider it... prob not. I have picked myself up its been 2 months now.ugh I sound pathetic.I think what kills me is that there is no closure or crap like he don't know how much I miss him still he has no idea. I want to tell him. But I think its funny that sometimes I think he think I want him to call him or text but I won't. I'm just strong about it. I usuallly get over guys. But this one I don't know

Man I never relied on him or anything gawd no ew.its like what you said I know your right if he did he would:( that's what I don't see.. kills me but, like me I like him a lot and never I try to work it out or anything.. he don't know, I don't know why your saying lay off I never laid on it only few times lol! :) I feel like he should tell me or explain some kind of damn explanation.. maybe take me back

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We had it pretty good we never dated but had it good had sex few times. Which was pretty good.

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no he didn't pretty sure he wanted the sex and so did I. there was so many times we could have had but no.

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Maybe I misread things!?

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my question is.. really you I'm over him guy but I just really need someone to tell me what I did was a smart thing to not talk to him or ask him back.

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You did good not falling for his crap!

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I so badly want to but no I won't. It would be stupid. But the question is does he think I was kind of smart like I didn't fall for his bullcrap.. and is not showing how much I like him and dying from all this very hurt.but he don't know. So could you tell me

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I have no clue what he thinks of you because guys like him take what they can get where ever they can get it. Don't dwell on what's in his brain, because he may not be sure himself, since he seems more driven by his what his lower head says than the one on his shoulders.

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Anyway after that we didn't talk to for over a week and he texts me middle of the freaking night on the 20th of march and I didn't reply because I thought it was sucky the text. Following April 1 he texts me again early saying ' what up girl I got the weed if your interested 'ya I was happy he texted me but I though it would be like a sorry or somewhat. But no. I replied few days later saying " HA NICE NO LONGER CELL IGHT.. he never replied or anything which hurt a lot. I truly miss him still I have like 2 other guys I'm talking to right now but they don't compare. He don't know how crazy I am over him been so long that's the ridiculous part! I just want to tell him or yell at him. Like how could u just stop talking to me like that?? I would really happy if he wanted me back. I want you back baby v_v

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That's not going to happen, and even if he did, IGNORE HIM, because you can do better, can't you?? Accept he is gone, and let that be your closure, and in time you really will be over this whole thing. Stay strong until then.

Yea I guess I see that that's not going to happen but I would like it.. and be like 'f' u! Shouldve done that when he asked me for again.. I have a list where I hate things that bother me and this one is one of the biggest. I learned from it. But I'm not saying I moved on or proud of it. But I really just do want to pick up the phone. I always though it was because he was older than me by few years. Him 24. Me 19 in high school but I'm done already. I don't know part of me wants him so bad. Only at night too.o last thing I also feeel like he laughing at me getting revenge or something like that. Like ha she must be dying that I'm not talking to her. Which he don't know

I guess you are going to have to learn how to deal with those feelings so you don't make a fool of yourself. Not just with him, but any guy, or any situation.

You are off to a good start by just ignoring him, and doing other things you enjoy.

Why go into a relationship just because your lonely. Maybe try enjoying your single life? You seem to be happy talking to several guys at a time and not really taking them seriously, now that you want something serious, of course they are going to pay you back with the same treatment. Do yourself a favor and make a choice, between you wanting a serious relationship with one guy, irbid you are going to be playing around with several of them. Both of which are fine.

Good luck,
Javi