Says he is busy. I got tired of it and last week I text him saying that (I know your tired of me but its OK I promise I will find someone better then you take care and have a nice life good luck) so after I text this message he stop calling me and I don't call him either. It has been 16 days we don't talk but I love/miss him so much. Should I call him first or I should wait for him to call me plzzzzzzzzzz help me

I think u are wrong.. May be he is busy and there was no need to send any message that u will get anyone else if u really loves him.. U should calmly think about it before sending any message.. Anyway the thing is that u have already text him and might be he felt bad.. Be patient before saying anything to anybody.. try to cal him ASAP.. Ask him clearly what he wants and then u proceed..

Don't call him. That is being co-dependant. If your 'fiance' was really that in love with you he wouldn't have ignored you so much in the first place. Since you sent him a text saying how you felt and he's decided not to make a move, perhaps that is a sign that despite how much you miss the presence of him, he might not be the one after all. I would wait for him to call. Let him know its not OK to treat you like that.

Time to move on-seems he wasn't really in this relationship,nor wishes to sort things out.

Find a life that makes you happy,without him in it.

You may love and miss him, but he doesn't love and miss you! Leave him alone and do what you told him you would,. get someone else that's better, and who won't be so busy that they IGNORE you.

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Originally Posted by sheimtu

says he is busy. i got tired of it and last week i text him saying that (i know your tired of me but its ok i promise i will find someone better then you take care and have a nice life good luck) so after i text this msg he stop calling me and i dont call him either. it has been 16 days we dont talk but i love/miss him so much. should i call him first or i should wait for him to call me plzzzzzzzzzz help me

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THANK U SO MUCH EVERONE FOR ANSWERING MY ? The message I sent when I was angery buz he didn't ans my phone but I will never do something that will hert him because I really love him so much we have been togather for 6years and he never ignore me like this,now when he ignores me it herts a lot. I know I make a mistake I shouldt sent him a mgs like that but I didn't mean it.the truth iz I love him more than anyone/anthing and I know I will until I die and I want to be with him 4ever.

You are not telling us the full story. What has happened that brought this whole thing on? Is this long distance or something?

I did nothing and I don't understand why he iz doing this but anway yes we have long distance relationship verylong.

How old are you both?

Have you ever met?

How long before you get back face to face??

How long has this distance been an issue?

How long where you together before the distance came between you??

When there is no goal to be together, and a timetable to achieve that goal Long Distance relationships are very hard. Especially when one partner cannot meet the needs of the other, or anger, and harsh words make things even worse.

Ah long distance relationship changes things a little. It could be a lot of things, something as simple as he losing his phone and notnhaving your number. But most likely ifbhe isn't responding that is a clear sign of him not being interested, because itnonly takes about thirty seconds to send a message. So move on, you gave the break up text, now that you made that decision, considering that he had no way of knowing if you were joking or not, now live your life apart from him. Don't stick around for someone who doesn't make the least attempt at communicating with you.

Good luck,
Javi