Why won't she talk to me anymore
She used to talk to me years ago, however she is much shyer now and hardly talks to me at all (although, she talks to my parents’ like she’s known them her whole life). She only says a few words like “good night” or “yeah”.
Take last Saturday for example: I tried to say something, such as “what book is that” to try to get an answer from her. Instead, her Mom answered for her. Another incident that night was when she told her brother something that she could’ve told the both of us. I chimed in saying that “I told him that already.” All she did was look left and right, almost with shifty eyes. The most I could get from her was a smile from her before she got off the couch and a “bye” as she was leaving. Before we said bye I said out loud “This is great weather”. She had her arms crossed and she responded by groaning. I guess I shouldn’t have said that.
For some reason, I don’t think she likes me in any shape or form.
What is my status with this girl?
I was over her house recently because I'm friends with her brother. She looked at me a few times and appeared to be just as shy around me as in the past. The big difference is that both of our parents were communicating more mainly because of recent medical issues in my family. As her mom and her were leaving, they commented on how I was behaving.
When they got back, things were completely different. It's almost like something happened while they were gone. I'm beginning to think that her mom told her about my family, even though this has been going on for a couple of weeks. At dinner, she was surprisingly more talkative with me and we were able to have brief conversations.
Not long after, I could hear her talking to a friend on the computer. She seemed to be mimicking me and for reason said I thought he was high" and soon after about something ending. The latter could have been them talking about their favorite show which was coming on later. I figured the former might have been about the way I had seemed more relaxed myself.
Her brother and I agreed to agreed to play a few card games with her and their mom. When we went to go get them, she still seemed relaxed and was talkative, almost in joking manner. This increased as we began playing. I thought I would be more open as well like I normally am while playing games. I was initially ,although not nearly as much as her (she was really upbeat and laughing real loud, but not because of me.), but this changed when we switched games. It was a trivia game that I never played before and I felt out of my element. I tried to regain composure, though I didn't know what to say. When I did say something, it rarely got the reaction I expected. We briefly got back to the first game, but this didn't improve anything.
By then, her show was coming on and we all (amazingly) began to watch it. Soon after, the aforementioned show came on and (surprisingly) we all started watching it. Unfortunately, I never really saw the show before, so I still barely said a word. Her parents occasionally glanced over at me like they expected to me do something. At that point though, I was starting to become very tired. It didn't help that a couple of times she made comments to her parents about how good looking two of the guys are. I was also able to admit that I never saw the show and didn't understand most of it (it helped that her dad felt the same way). She seemed to understand, but it felt awkward to me especially when she began to focus more on her dad. I briefly recovered when were commenting on a noise we heard outside and she briefly focused on me. The last I saw of her that night, we were alone and I said "excuse me" to get by her, but she barely reacted.
She still looked at me from time to time, but this was more like a passing glance. She had been open around me in the past, but would barely talk to and/or notice me. I had also heard her talk about other guys before, but not like this.
