My boyfriend and I were having sex and it was only the third time. He had a condom on and we switched positions a few times and this all lasted 45 minutes.. Which we both thought was a really long time for two beginners. He doesn't think he came because he didn't orgasm but he isn't sure.. So is it possible to get soft before you ejaculate? And just not orgasm at all?

If the banana came in contact with the fruit bowl... you could get pregnant. None of the rest has any real bearing on it at all.