My boyfriend asked me to came over his house 3 days after we've been dating when I got over his house he didn't touch me or kissed me I felt stupid he kept saying man you look sexy and I told him I got to get going and I kissed him and I asked him to kissed me he said no and I said OK and I left nevously since then he never call me and I want to talk to him I don't know what to do it seems like a break up or dumping which I don't know can somebody help me please cause I really want to talk to him and work it out with him.please help me thank you!

He's your boyfriend after 3 days? I don't understand what happened here.

He invited you to his house, you kissed him (he didn't kiss you back), he hasn't called since that time.

Maybe you are too eager and you scared him off. Maybe he just doesn't want to be your boyfriend.

How old are the two of you?

His 21 n I'm 18 I didn't scare him off I kissed him because I was about to leave.

Have you tried talking to him?

I do think though that he got cold feet,so most probably,he doesn't want a relationship.

Well, SOMETHING appears to have scared him off. You tell me. What was it?

I repeat - you asked him to kiss you. He said no. You then kissed him. Maybe he thinks you're too aggressive.

And a boyfriend after 3 days?

Not knowing your culture and location.

Not everyone is ready to kiss in three days, had you thought he may have only wanted to talk and get to know you.

No I haven't because I don't want him to know how I feel about him.

Maybe I don't know he probably shy or something because he kept looking at me and said you look sexy you ar so sexy only one word finally I was so tired of listen him saying that I told him I have to go

OK thxxx anyway he maybe not ready to kissed and three days you probably right thxxx

How long have you know each other?

Please, for future reference, the use of punctuation between ideas is highly recommended.

I am not sure what this guy wanted, but I guess he got scared of you kissing him on your first "date", so maybe it is time to look for someone who can handle you? Or at least someone who is willing to respond with the same level of sexiness that you have? Anyhow, if you want to contact him, then call him, you do have his number right?

Good Luck,
Javi

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Originally Posted by Bendgina

no i haven't because i dont want him to kno how i feel about him.

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I don't get it. He's your boyfriend, you practically begged him to kiss you, but you don't want him to know how you feel about him?

Sounds like neither one of you are mature enough for a relationship at this time. You're afraid to talk to your "boyfriend" and he invites you over, tells you you're sexy, you leave, and he never calls you again.

If you two can't talk, then it's better to just forget about the whole thing. No communication means no relationship.

Maybe three days does not a boyfriend make.

Three days.

He shouldn't even know where you live for 60 days at the least.

Backround check results first
Address... maybe.

You need to learn caution before it kills you.

Maybe he is waiting on you?