Is this the same for Women (Women only answers please) !
IF HE FINDS HER VERY ATTRACTIVE HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH HER.
(Because he finds her attractive he has both an emotional interest in connecting with her and to be open to her connection interest in him)
IF HE FINDS HER ATTRACTIVE AND IS ATTRACTED TO HER PERSONALITY THEN HE WANTS TO DATE (RELATIONSHIP) HER.
(Because he finds both her looks and personality attractive he has both an emotional interest in connecting with her and to be open to her connection interest in him)
IF HE DOES NOT FIND HER ATTRACTIVE BUT LIKES HER PERSONALITY THEN HE SEES HER AS A FRIEND
(He is therefore not open to an emotional connection but a friendship - if she pushes for an emotional connection he will close off from her and reject her)
IF HE DOES NOT FIND HER ATTRACTIVE IN BOTH LOOKS AND PERSONALITY HE IS CLOSED OFF TO HER.
(He has no interest in her and is not responsive to her interest in him)
In Summery:
Good looks = Sexual interest.
Good looks & Good personality = Romantic relationship interest.
Bad Looks & Good personality = Friendship only interest
Bad looks & Bad Personality = No interest
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Therefore an unattractive girl no matter how nice she is will have less success in the dating (relationship) game as an attractive girl.
(((Money and material goods are of little interest to a man, so not a driving factor)))
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Cougar season it is... hunting already :) Joking of course...