Hi, My friend and I are running a dating survey and we'd greatly appreciate your input. Thanks! :)

You are dating Mary and Jen. You're spending weekends with Mary, having sex exclusively with her, blowing off dates with Jen to be with her; even though you had been on two dates with Jen and are making plans to see Jen again. You tell Mary that you want to date her exclusively and that you want her to be exclusive with you. Who is more important to you Jen or Mary?

1) Mary
2) Jen
3) Equally important
4) Undecided

Does the fact that you know that Mary was partying with her girlfriends and kissing other guys change your answer to the above question?

1) Yes
2) No
3) Undecided

Lisa is dating Bob and Rick. Lisa spends most of her time with Bob and has sex with only him. Lisa tells Bob that she wants to date him exclusively. Bob knows Lisa is actively dating Rick. If Bob really likes Lisa, should Bob agree to date Lisa exclusively?

1) Yes
2) No
3) Undecided

E. None of the above. It doesn't sound like this is the right time in your life for a committed relationship. Have fun!

Sounds like you like to have fun. So just do so ;)

Good luck,
Javi

You are dating Mary and Jen. You're spending weekends with Mary, having sex exclusively with her, blowing off dates with Jen to be with her; even though you had been on two dates with Jen and are making plans to see Jen again.  You tell Mary that you want to date her exclusively and that you want her to be exclusive with you.  Who is more important to you Jen or Mary?
1) Mary
2) Jen
3) Equally important
4) Undecided
Must be Mary, because you are having exclusive sex, and want an exclusive relationship. But you must be planning on being a lying cheater if you are still going to be seeing Jen, behind Mary's back.
 
Does the fact that you know that Mary was partying with her girlfriends and kissing other guys change your answer to the above question? 
1) Yes
2) No
3) Undecided
NO, because you were the one who made a choice to have exclusive sex with her and want a commitment. 

Lisa is dating Bob and Rick. Lisa spends most of her time with Bob and has sex with only him. Lisa tells Bob that she wants to date him exclusively. Bob knows Lisa is actively dating Rick. If Bob really likes Lisa, should Bob agree to date Lisa exclusively? 
1) Yes
2) No
3) Undecided
Bob is a big boy and can make his own choices. In both your questions, once a mutual agreement to be exclusive is arrived at, then all bets are off with sex, or dating others.
1) Yes
2) No
3) Maybe so

Did I pass this silly test, and what do I win? :cool:

How fast was Mary going to the next train station and will she arrive before 3:00? If Jen got there 53 minutes after Mary, and it was a Tuesday in August, what time did Jen's train leave the station?

Sorry, couldn't help it... :)

I agree... if you wanted to truly be exclusive, you would not be planning to still see someone else. You can't be a little exclusive or when it suits you.

Date different people, let those people date different people, and enjoy getting to know different people until you find someone you really do want to be exclusive with.

After all, none of it is actually exclusive if other people are still involved.

first Q ==> non of them
2nd Q ==>no
3rd q==> no

I only date one person at a time so I can't answer.

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Originally Posted by Llwaysl8

Hi, My friend and I are running a dating survey and we'd greatly appreciate your input. Thanks! :)

You are dating Mary and Jen. You're spending weekends with Mary, having sex exclusively with her, blowing off dates with Jen to be with her; even though you had been on two dates with Jen and are making plans to see Jen again. You tell Mary that you want to date her exclusively and that you want her to be exclusive with you. Who is more important to you Jen or Mary?

1) Mary
2) Jen
3) Equally important
4) Undecided
**** you are the most important thing to Yourself, you put no regard into any of the lies you are telling either.

Does the fact that you know that Mary was partying with her girlfriends and kissing other guys change your answer to the above question?

1) Yes
2) No
3) Undecided
**** what the other person does has no effect on your bad behavior, only if you stay with them or not, Your actions are what counts in the way you behave

Lisa is dating Bob and Rick. Lisa spends most of her time with Bob and has sex with only him. Lisa tells Bob that she wants to date him exclusively. Bob knows Lisa is actively dating Rick. If Bob really likes Lisa, should Bob agree to date Lisa exclusively?

1) Yes
2) No
3) Undecided

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Does not mean she agrees to no longer date the other person