31, Married and I only (maybe) have sex 1-3 times a month.
My husband and I have been together for 8 years now, married for 4 years. I'm 31 and he's 41, but although there is a 10 year gap... I only get that personal time with him 1-3 times a month.
I've sent calendar invites to try something new, but we never follow that even when trying to schedule personal time. I also only climax when he uses his fingers, and not during penatration. The paste is very fast at times which dryes me out quicker and we have started using a lubricated oil to get through the moment.
Need help: I feel like my libido is fading away and my sex live is fair. God help me, my eyes are wondering away!