She kissed me last week in person said she loves and cares for me but she in unsure what she wants and wants to figure out ****, she asked for space but never said its over she said maybe chance maybe not she is not sure last week she also said she might be willing to hang out this weekend, and I said ill hit her up later this week and ask her should I not even ask her? And just give her the space she wanted? When I saw her in person the connection was def there, I didn't cheat or anything but I lost myself for abit and was getting drunk and guess was acusing her of cheating and saying rude stuff and pushing her away please help me she is my one!

If she is confused then give her some space.. Leave her to her own.. There is a chance that she might come but it is also possible that she will never come.. But let her analyse this,what she want in life.Don't force her for anything.. She kissed you because she is still in love with you and she cares for you.. You also show her the love but in a limit.. Sometimes it is better not to show your love..

How long were you together, and how long have you been broken up?

How old are you both?

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she asked for space but never said its over she said maybe chance maybe not she is not sure

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That's not a hopeful sign, and I always think that when they ask for space, GIVE IT TO THEM!!

Asking for space=I'm breaking up with you,but I'm too much of a coward to tell you upfront.

Give her all the space in the world-forever.

3 years and 2 months

Its been a month and I saw her last week we laughed and kissed said she tell me end of this week if she would hang out so dk if I should even ask her or not

Something's need to be clarified to you. For starters, she is not the only women alive and probably not the best one, just the one that you have created an illusion and have put on a pedestal for some time. Second, whether you are with her or not, considering that you won't do anything dumb, you will survive and most likely meet someone else who you like even more and who really loves you, not someone who says the very typical "I love you but I can't e with you" bull. Third, if you keep wanting to "hang-out" please make sure that you think with the big head and not the small one because if not your emotions will get mixed up and you will be created false hope for yourself while she has it very clear in her head that she is just having some fun with you. Also, if you cannot control your emotions when your drunk and they are jeopardizing your relationship even more, then the solution is clear... DON'T DRINK!!

Now, giving her space is not a choice if you want the slightest chance at her coming back to you, it is a requirement. When a lady asks you for space and you don't give it to her, then you are dooming yourself from the beginning, go NO CONTACT if what she wants is space, do your own thing, have fun, and if she changes her mind she will come running back. However, if she doesn't in a reasonable time (around one month) then start to heal because if you don't you are only elongating the healing process and trust me, if she is planning on leaving you, then she has already started looking for someone else. You have already deteriorated this relationship a lot and the chances of her coming back are slim. I would start looking elsewhere and start remembering how it feels to be happy on your own.

Good Luck,
Javi

But people on here say they got girls to come back after few months and cheated we were crazy about each other and I think she will come back , I never cheated we had great relationship until last 2 weeks before we broke up things were great

But that was the past man. Do your own thing, wait a little while if you want but without any guarantee I wouldn't wait around. Cases where couples got back together and stayed together are minimal.

Good luck,
Javi

You will learn, not just with partners, but in life, things you thought were solid and reliable can change very fast. Its like working a job you like, and the company goes out of business.

When these changes happen, we are scrambling to adjust, and when its never been done before, its not that easy, but must be done.

In time you will adjust, and grow, and learn, but for now, its going to be rough, but it does get better. You just have to accept the things you cannot change, and change the things you can. Guess which category your girlfriends feelings fall into?