Okay here it is. The guy I'm in love with has a baby on the way with his ex and he swears on his life that he has no feelings for the mom any more. I want to trust him but I just really don't know. I mean he has a bond with her that I will not have with him for a long time. What should I do?

You better cool your jets as they have a lot of business they have yet to handle, and you really don't want to be in the middle of their messy business.

I mean stop and think about a guy trying to get someone else(?), and he has a pregnant ex. If it looks strange, that's because it is. If it doesn't..?

You can't help who you love, but you can help what you do about it, so at least stop and think why you are ready to jump in so deep with this soon to be busy fella.

Trust him.

If you don't trust him, as for as cheating, then he could cheat at work, at the local store, or with old high school friends, A person who will cheat will cheat.

As for as a relationship, he will have some dealings with his ex for almost the rest of his life, since there are some dealings with ex about child forever. But there will be more for the next 18 plus years.