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  • Apr 17, 2011, 06:02 PM
    arianne99
    Teenage pregnancy
    Hi I'm 17 and I'm very worried if I could get pregnant. My boyfriend slipped his penis outside my organ for about 2-3 minutes. Is there a possibility for me to get pregnant? It was 5 days before my period. I'm still waiting for my period to come anytime from now. Thanks a lot
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:04 PM
    Wondergirl

    Outside or inside? You meant inside, right?

    Anytime you have sex (and that's what you had), there's a chance you can get pregnant, even with two or more kinds of birth control being used. ("Pulling out," by the way, is NOT birth control.)

    If you're not emotionally and financially prepared to be called Mommy, please don't have sex.
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:11 PM
    arianne99
    Comment on Wondergirl's post
    No. It's OUTSIDE. I read some articles saying it's possible to get pregnant. Waaa. I'm scared! Never thought that could be possible. I'm not sure if semen came out.
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:13 PM
    arianne99
    Comment on Wondergirl's post
    More like it was really outside.the skin above the clitoris.I'm not sure if it touched the outside of my vagina. But could that be possible? Thank you
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:21 PM
    Wondergirl

    im not sure if semen came out.

    Two to three minutes would have given those little guys enough time to travel, depending on how you two were positioned.

    If I were you, I'd be praying. And being much more careful in the future.
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:31 PM
    arianne99
    Well. He was on top of me. It didn't penetrated.
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:34 PM
    arianne99
    Comment on Wondergirl's post
    Well. He was on top of me. It didn't penetrated.
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:35 PM
    Wondergirl

    No, but you said you were skin to skin and he was very close.
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:38 PM
    arianne99
    Comment on Wondergirl's post
    So what does that mean? He only slipped it Outside, it was on the sides of clitoris I think. It never came in, injected, etc. I'm still a virgin :)
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:40 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    While a lot harder, yes it is still slightly possible.
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:43 PM
    arianne99
    Comment on Fr_Chuck's post
    Even withouth sex? How possible it is? Waaaa. I'm scared >.< it happened 3 days from now :(
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:52 PM
    Wondergirl

    If your boyfriend was erect and very excited, there's every possibility semen was leaking out on you. Sperm are energetic little guys who don't care if you're a virgin or not.

    Promise me that, if you aren't pregnant this time, you will be SUPER careful in the future. I don't want to be a cyber auntie.
  • Apr 17, 2011, 07:57 PM
    arianne99
    Comment on Wondergirl's post
    I will. Seriously. And I will be very grateful if I'm not. I learned my lesson. Sigh. Never thought that could be possible. So is the chance big? He didn't ejaculated. Haaaaaaays. I hope if there were sperms they all died. Hahaha
  • Apr 17, 2011, 08:19 PM
    Wondergirl

    Since I wasn't there to observe who put what where, I don't know how great your chances are. I'm guessing they are small, but don't get too complacent until you know for sure you aren't pregnant. I won't buy a baby gift yet.
  • Apr 18, 2011, 03:28 AM
    DoulaLC

    Given what you describe, it would be extremely unlikely, in part also due to the timing (a few days before your period is due).

    Obviously, it would be wise to not engage in sex, or even foreplay, until you are physically, emotionally, and financially ready to care for a child.

    Best not to even let yourselves get into a situation where it could go farther than you had planned.

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